dominique
Active member
I'm in love with one guy I will call him chart A but he won't commit. Chart B is willing to commit but I don't love him and we really don't get along, but we have a child together. My son is now 11 and his father hasn't been around since he was a baby and now he wants to try to make it work again. He's very agressive and like to push is authority around and this annoys me, and he's really judgemental and I hate that, but I feel like being with him would be the right thing to do for my son. I want him to be happy. My friend's opinion was to not settle which is what I will be doing if I was to be with my child's father (Chart B). The other guy (Chart A) we have great chemistry and we get along just fine, but he won't commit to me, he always says that he's afraid that I will hurt him, like I did before. I understand his concerns but I'm not the same person I was 5years ago when I hurt him. He's constantly saying he want's to be with me, I'm a good woman, etc, etc. But yet he won't commit because he's afraid he'll look like a fool. Really I'm ready for a relationship I want to settle down and create a family and (Chart B) is offering me that, but (Chart A) isn't. My biggest fear is that once I commit to (Chart B) there is really no chance for me with (Chart A) because my mind will be made up and I will follow through with my decision. I'm afraid that once I do this I might end up living in regret because I missed out on a chance to be with someone who I am really in love with. I don't want to wish I would've been a little more patient and understanding. Please understand I don't expect you to solve my problems for me, I will not take your advice and hold it as the ultimate truth. I know that we all have freedom to choose our paths in life and nothing is set in stone, I just would like an honest assestment of the two Charts A & B compared to my (Chart c) to see from an astrological prospective which person would be the best choice. Ultimately I will make my own decision, but I would just like different points of views. Even if you have an opinion that's not based on the charts that would be helpful. Thank you in advance whoever decides to entertain my question.
CHART A: http://www.astro.com/tmpd/cdndfilesZ6AaR-u1318636695/astro_2gw_54_chart_a.81952.42405.gif
CHART B: http://www.astro.com/tmpd/cdndfilesZ6AaR-u1318636695/astro_2gw_37_chart_b.82067.47423.gif
CHART C: http://www.astro.com/tmpd/cdndfilesZ6AaR-u1318636695/astro_2gw_05_chart_c.82188.52219.gif
COMPOSITES:
CHART A & C: http://www.astro.com/tmpd/cdndfiles...o_621gw_54_05_chart_a_chart_c.82385.60702.gif
CHART B & C: http://www.astro.com/tmpd/cdndfiles...o_621gw_37_05_chart_b_chart_c.82465.31307.gif
CHART A: http://www.astro.com/tmpd/cdndfilesZ6AaR-u1318636695/astro_2gw_54_chart_a.81952.42405.gif
CHART B: http://www.astro.com/tmpd/cdndfilesZ6AaR-u1318636695/astro_2gw_37_chart_b.82067.47423.gif
CHART C: http://www.astro.com/tmpd/cdndfilesZ6AaR-u1318636695/astro_2gw_05_chart_c.82188.52219.gif
COMPOSITES:
CHART A & C: http://www.astro.com/tmpd/cdndfiles...o_621gw_54_05_chart_a_chart_c.82385.60702.gif
CHART B & C: http://www.astro.com/tmpd/cdndfiles...o_621gw_37_05_chart_b_chart_c.82465.31307.gif