Sorry for the length of the post but had to update as I asked a couple of questions about him....
There goes yet another disappointment for me...I accidentally stumbled upon his FB profile and noticed that his so-called ex-girlfriend is with him in Greece right now! She lives in Switzerland actually, so she would go back and forth and that's why it was easy for me to stay at his villa myself since she's in a different country so we both wouldn't know about each other. He had told me that they haven't been together for 4 months and that he broke it off because she is kinda crazy and would tell me the things she did. I left on October 3 and when I also stumbled upon her FB profile, I noticed that she was counting down the days since October 3 saying 7 days until Mykonos...6 days until Mykonos so seems like the trip was planned while I was there myself staying at his place. No wonder his phone was turned face down all the time as if to hide potential calls.
Anyways so besides him telling me the weird stuff she did and how she was a bit controlling which he didn't like, his own FB profile says "it's complicated" as the relationship status and they don't have photos together but she is all over the place in his villa taking pics. When I met his friend and the wife, that friend's wife told me in front of that Greek man I met how much she liked me and how she never likes his past girlfriends and that the last one was kind of crazy.....exactly the word HE used to describe his ex who is with him now at his house lol so I'm not sure why he is with her if that's the case if there's not much liking towards her....
.he kept telling me how he sees future with me later on, he even told me not to find anyone while I'm back home and that he doesn't date himself much, and told me to "be a good girl" until we meet again referring to not being sexual with anyone lol yet he has his ex girlfriend or current girlfriend...... Whatever they are now.....over there after I left...anyways I suppose I don't have much to lose since he was much older than me and I got annoyed with sex because being older I felt that he needed extra stimulation in that department while other guys get hard just from kissing lol which wasn't the case here.
Regardless it is still very unpleasant to realize that you were lied to and fooled, so I confronted him saying that if he was with her in a relationship then he should have been honest in Greece and he told me that she is over with he friend.....as if that even makes a difference lol. I told him to not contact me again and I deactivated my Viber as I kept it for our contact and lastly he told me not to overreact LOLoL I said well u lied and staying at your place was a mistake for me good luck to u in life. At the end he tried to turn the tables on me saying that "you must have found a new flirt and acting this way" I was like wow good way to turn the blame on me for his cheating.... Although in this case he was cheating on her with me lol but anyways so another mystery solved.
I feel like he isn't into her that much based in how he was talking about it and for the last time I would like to know if he has any feeling for that girlfriend of his because he told me that me being next to him he feels very relaxed that I relax him and calm him down without doing Anything just being next to him and that I'm very clam and that's what he values in a woman and he doesn't like the types who try to be bossy all the time to get their way so I honestly felt that's he was into me a lot and loved my cooking and this is why I'm trying to figure out if he has feeling for that lady and how strong that feeling is for her that he can't get her out of his life claiming that she is the one who is after him and he had talked about ending it while she keeps contacting him and pursuing him......he also complained while I was at his house that that ex gf didn't like to visit his family when he wanted and that was a big problem with him....she is his 5th sun in Scorpio...so looks like he is into her or she is into him being in Scorpio moon will sextile her but she is located in his 8th house so maybe this isn't a good indication for him. Any thought about whether there is feeling for her or love?
There goes yet another disappointment for me...I accidentally stumbled upon his FB profile and noticed that his so-called ex-girlfriend is with him in Greece right now! She lives in Switzerland actually, so she would go back and forth and that's why it was easy for me to stay at his villa myself since she's in a different country so we both wouldn't know about each other. He had told me that they haven't been together for 4 months and that he broke it off because she is kinda crazy and would tell me the things she did. I left on October 3 and when I also stumbled upon her FB profile, I noticed that she was counting down the days since October 3 saying 7 days until Mykonos...6 days until Mykonos so seems like the trip was planned while I was there myself staying at his place. No wonder his phone was turned face down all the time as if to hide potential calls.
Anyways so besides him telling me the weird stuff she did and how she was a bit controlling which he didn't like, his own FB profile says "it's complicated" as the relationship status and they don't have photos together but she is all over the place in his villa taking pics. When I met his friend and the wife, that friend's wife told me in front of that Greek man I met how much she liked me and how she never likes his past girlfriends and that the last one was kind of crazy.....exactly the word HE used to describe his ex who is with him now at his house lol so I'm not sure why he is with her if that's the case if there's not much liking towards her....
.he kept telling me how he sees future with me later on, he even told me not to find anyone while I'm back home and that he doesn't date himself much, and told me to "be a good girl" until we meet again referring to not being sexual with anyone lol yet he has his ex girlfriend or current girlfriend...... Whatever they are now.....over there after I left...anyways I suppose I don't have much to lose since he was much older than me and I got annoyed with sex because being older I felt that he needed extra stimulation in that department while other guys get hard just from kissing lol which wasn't the case here.
Regardless it is still very unpleasant to realize that you were lied to and fooled, so I confronted him saying that if he was with her in a relationship then he should have been honest in Greece and he told me that she is over with he friend.....as if that even makes a difference lol. I told him to not contact me again and I deactivated my Viber as I kept it for our contact and lastly he told me not to overreact LOLoL I said well u lied and staying at your place was a mistake for me good luck to u in life. At the end he tried to turn the tables on me saying that "you must have found a new flirt and acting this way" I was like wow good way to turn the blame on me for his cheating.... Although in this case he was cheating on her with me lol but anyways so another mystery solved.
I feel like he isn't into her that much based in how he was talking about it and for the last time I would like to know if he has any feeling for that girlfriend of his because he told me that me being next to him he feels very relaxed that I relax him and calm him down without doing Anything just being next to him and that I'm very clam and that's what he values in a woman and he doesn't like the types who try to be bossy all the time to get their way so I honestly felt that's he was into me a lot and loved my cooking and this is why I'm trying to figure out if he has feeling for that lady and how strong that feeling is for her that he can't get her out of his life claiming that she is the one who is after him and he had talked about ending it while she keeps contacting him and pursuing him......he also complained while I was at his house that that ex gf didn't like to visit his family when he wanted and that was a big problem with him....she is his 5th sun in Scorpio...so looks like he is into her or she is into him being in Scorpio moon will sextile her but she is located in his 8th house so maybe this isn't a good indication for him. Any thought about whether there is feeling for her or love?