obsidianmineral
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There’s this girl I like, but I’m not sure if she likes me back. She’s usually nice to me, hugs me and tells me she’d like to talk more. We’ve gone out two times, and she’s told me that she’d like going out again. We have good chemistry.
However, I don’t see that much interest sometimes. I really am confused about all this, and don’t know if it’s safe to try asking her out or telling her about my feelings. I feel like she sends me mixed signals. My gut tells me she might just find me attractive and that’s it.
Truth be told, I just wanna do the right thing, be me, be independent and be upright, but my feelings get in the way. I don’t want someone just to “get sex”. I’m really tired of being the one that always feels a lot for the other person but isn’t reciprocated to the same extent. I’m a 21 year old guy, maybe it’s normal for someone my age to have these kinds of feelings. I find myself constantly getting frustrated at myself when I feel things for her, like “come on, don’t be a dumbass” . Past experiences have taught me that my happiness is the only thing that matters. And that’s legit what I want in life. I just wanna be myself, express myself completely and do things right.
So what is my prospect, you guys?
https://imgur.com/a/iVIFOMG
However, I don’t see that much interest sometimes. I really am confused about all this, and don’t know if it’s safe to try asking her out or telling her about my feelings. I feel like she sends me mixed signals. My gut tells me she might just find me attractive and that’s it.
Truth be told, I just wanna do the right thing, be me, be independent and be upright, but my feelings get in the way. I don’t want someone just to “get sex”. I’m really tired of being the one that always feels a lot for the other person but isn’t reciprocated to the same extent. I’m a 21 year old guy, maybe it’s normal for someone my age to have these kinds of feelings. I find myself constantly getting frustrated at myself when I feel things for her, like “come on, don’t be a dumbass” . Past experiences have taught me that my happiness is the only thing that matters. And that’s legit what I want in life. I just wanna be myself, express myself completely and do things right.
So what is my prospect, you guys?
https://imgur.com/a/iVIFOMG