ScorpioMoon, I also have Moon in Scorpio and a Capricorn S. Node. I feel extremely detached from ppl and have long felt it was b/c I have Moon in 7th House Scorpio. In my case it's felt like others can see my emotions obviously unless I play to my natural Capricorn stoicism. Which means I can either let ppl see what I'm feeling or totally shut down in a cold way, or at least try to act like I have. You also mention Aquarius/Uranus and I am an Aquarian and most often err on the side of detached rather than "brotherly love" type Aqua. I've noticed though... when my needs are met (rarely) I often veryvery quickly become giving and loving, almost like a good vibe slut. But when they aren't, I identify MORE with my Scorpio Moon than my Sun. I imagine if you have your Scorpio Moon at you Ascendant you may feel a lot of this too, in an equal and opposite way. See I try to hide it all but it's no good b/c it's close to my Desc. Perhaps you resent hiding it and naturally let it rip?
Let me know if you feel like this resonates. I have been trying to be careful with my S. Node btw, this is what Hitler had. And I'm definitely always working on where to direct my inner fascist pos.