Taurus with Venus in Taurus & Moon in Aries

Sources for moon in Aries state that the men are attracted to strong, aggressive, unpredictable women, etc. Yet Venus in Taurus is attracted to the complete opposite. He likes his women feminine, traditional, goody goods, etc. If these two contradictory aspects are in a Taurus male's chart, does that mean they like a balance of both types of women in one? For instance, would they like a woman who is both a bad girl and a mannered one and a not too independent one? Very confusing. Thanks for any help.

lilithontop said:

Sources for moon in Aries state that the men are attracted to strong, aggressive, unpredictable women, etc. Yet Venus in Taurus is attracted to the complete opposite. He likes his women feminine, traditional, goody goods, etc. If these two contradictory aspects are in a Taurus male's chart, does that mean they like a balance of both types of women in one? For instance, would they like a woman who is both a bad girl and a mannered one and a not too independent one? Very confusing. Thanks for any help.

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Not necessarily a balance, but a combination of the attributes, depending upon their respective influences in the chart and psyche.
It's not really confusing when we realize that we are all combinations of contradictory or paradoxical attributes and behaviours. That is how life is; that is how we are as humans.

Hi. Is it that you are actually having difficulty finding a partner who satisfies all of your needs? The Aries attributes are probably more important to find in a partner, because your Venus in Taurus is probably easier for you to live out yourself, since is is your Sun ruler and in the same sign as the Sun. Earth and fire are opposite elements, so you may need role models to help you get in touch with your fire. But we all need to try to live out all of our charts for ourselves, then it's not so crucial which bits we live partly through others, and which bits we take care of more independently. A lot depends on the rest of the chart.

Aries and Taurus do have stuff in common. These are the signs of the beginning and middle of Spring - life explodes into action and the earth shows its power to create new life out of the desolation of Winter. This is you - Aries Taurus - and the full force of Spring needs to flow in some area of your life.