BaoSanniang
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So looking at my chart, I am a Cancer but I have Gemini for both my Venus and my Descendant, though Venus is in VI, an earth house.
Many descriptions I've read of Venus / Descendant in Gemini contain words like "variety is the spice of life", "fickle", and "tendency to marry youthful partners" / "marry younger partners."
However, if you look at the condition of my Venus and Descendant, you'll notice a few things:
-Venus is in a sextile to Saturn (11.48 degrees Gemini to 7.12 degrees Aries)
-Ruler of 7th house in the 7th, but in Cancer
-Mercury is in aspect to Saturn and conjunct Sun in Cancer
-Chart ruler (Jupiter) is in Capricorn and also in aspect to Saturn
-Both of my 7th house planets are in Cancer and in aspect to Saturn
-I have a T-square in my chart with Saturn as the focal point, the T-square covers the cardinal houses 1, 4, and 7
I don't think I have really been attracted to, nor have I often attracted to girls who are younger in some way. I tend to feel a much stronger attraction for girls who are older than me in age or at least spirit, girls who can look after me, even mentor me in some way. I tend to be attracted to girls who are stable, who can talk to me, but most importantly, ones who have good moral values, who are established in the world with their act together and have good family values. I don't think these are very "typically" Gemini traits, but more Cancer, maybe even Virgo and Capricorn.
I also disagree with some descriptions of Venus / Descendant in Gemini that say someone with that placement may not care about their partner's appearance. I don't care a whole lot when it comes to looks and the way they dress, but I do have a few things I really don't like. To an extent, I do associate looks with their inner character / personal values. I do admit that looks / body shape matter to me to an extent, and I have clear likes and dislikes though I don't always express them.
For those of you who are more experienced than me, would you please look at the condition of my chart regarding Venus and the Descendant, and tell me what kind of wife I'll possibly end up with? Will she be older than me in age and / or spirit? Will I have only one marriage for life?
On a further note, I have noticed that I generally attract older people into my life, and it's been this way for as long as I can remember. I wonder if it's because of my Saturn, my Capricorn, or because Sun in Cancer needs a lot of care so whatever force is in the universe decided to give me that kind of energy.
If I marry I'll totally be cool with being a very family-oriented man, possibly even a house husband. I do feel with marriage comes such a heavy responsibility, and I'm not good at showing my affections through words. I prefer to do things. I feel that the Saturn aspects to my 7th house planets and my Venus makes me seem a bit aloof / overly reserved at times despite being a Cancer, but deep down I really do care when I've decided to spend my life with someone and I do it in a very Cancer / Virgo way through little things in daily life.
I've also read that someone who can complete your T-square with one or more of their planets forming an aspect (not sure if easy, challenging, or either) to the planet that's the focal point indicates a strong connection, but I guess other helpful aspects must also be there. In a close relationship I feel it's almost as if it's my destiny, burden (hopefully positive) to accommodate and to serve the other person. I have a hard time taking things lightly, sometimes even putting unnecessary pressure on myself.
Thanks.
Many descriptions I've read of Venus / Descendant in Gemini contain words like "variety is the spice of life", "fickle", and "tendency to marry youthful partners" / "marry younger partners."
However, if you look at the condition of my Venus and Descendant, you'll notice a few things:
-Venus is in a sextile to Saturn (11.48 degrees Gemini to 7.12 degrees Aries)
-Ruler of 7th house in the 7th, but in Cancer
-Mercury is in aspect to Saturn and conjunct Sun in Cancer
-Chart ruler (Jupiter) is in Capricorn and also in aspect to Saturn
-Both of my 7th house planets are in Cancer and in aspect to Saturn
-I have a T-square in my chart with Saturn as the focal point, the T-square covers the cardinal houses 1, 4, and 7
I don't think I have really been attracted to, nor have I often attracted to girls who are younger in some way. I tend to feel a much stronger attraction for girls who are older than me in age or at least spirit, girls who can look after me, even mentor me in some way. I tend to be attracted to girls who are stable, who can talk to me, but most importantly, ones who have good moral values, who are established in the world with their act together and have good family values. I don't think these are very "typically" Gemini traits, but more Cancer, maybe even Virgo and Capricorn.
I also disagree with some descriptions of Venus / Descendant in Gemini that say someone with that placement may not care about their partner's appearance. I don't care a whole lot when it comes to looks and the way they dress, but I do have a few things I really don't like. To an extent, I do associate looks with their inner character / personal values. I do admit that looks / body shape matter to me to an extent, and I have clear likes and dislikes though I don't always express them.
For those of you who are more experienced than me, would you please look at the condition of my chart regarding Venus and the Descendant, and tell me what kind of wife I'll possibly end up with? Will she be older than me in age and / or spirit? Will I have only one marriage for life?
On a further note, I have noticed that I generally attract older people into my life, and it's been this way for as long as I can remember. I wonder if it's because of my Saturn, my Capricorn, or because Sun in Cancer needs a lot of care so whatever force is in the universe decided to give me that kind of energy.
If I marry I'll totally be cool with being a very family-oriented man, possibly even a house husband. I do feel with marriage comes such a heavy responsibility, and I'm not good at showing my affections through words. I prefer to do things. I feel that the Saturn aspects to my 7th house planets and my Venus makes me seem a bit aloof / overly reserved at times despite being a Cancer, but deep down I really do care when I've decided to spend my life with someone and I do it in a very Cancer / Virgo way through little things in daily life.
I've also read that someone who can complete your T-square with one or more of their planets forming an aspect (not sure if easy, challenging, or either) to the planet that's the focal point indicates a strong connection, but I guess other helpful aspects must also be there. In a close relationship I feel it's almost as if it's my destiny, burden (hopefully positive) to accommodate and to serve the other person. I have a hard time taking things lightly, sometimes even putting unnecessary pressure on myself.
Thanks.
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