Hello everyone! I need a bit of advice.
I’m an out gay woman. I started working in a new place a few months ago, and one of my co-workers is a Pisces girl. We talked a lot and at first it was all friendly but I feel like at some point everything changed. She suddenly became more stressed and awkward near me, I catch her staring at me all the time, it even sometimes seem like she’s daydreaming and I can tell by the look in her eyes when we talk that she feels something. She asked me to help her with a few things and teach her a few video games, but she gives me so many mixed signals!! I tried to start conversation via texts about these topics and sometimes she’s very present in the conversation and responds quickly, but sometimes she literally ignores me. I just can’t tell if she likes me or trying to play hard to get or something. She talked a little about guys but I can’t really tell her sexual orientation because every time I brought up lgbt related stuff or talk about one of my exes she would ignore it/not express her opinion and sometimes she would even seem quite unsatisfied. It seems to me that she’s afraid of her own feeling and probably closeted and trying to suppress. But I’m afraid to make a move and be wrong.I feel like we are a really good match and I think we could really hit it off, and I don’t wanna miss this chance but at the same time I don’t wanna mess this up. How do I approach this situation? What can I do?
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I’m an out gay woman. I started working in a new place a few months ago, and one of my co-workers is a Pisces girl. We talked a lot and at first it was all friendly but I feel like at some point everything changed. She suddenly became more stressed and awkward near me, I catch her staring at me all the time, it even sometimes seem like she’s daydreaming and I can tell by the look in her eyes when we talk that she feels something. She asked me to help her with a few things and teach her a few video games, but she gives me so many mixed signals!! I tried to start conversation via texts about these topics and sometimes she’s very present in the conversation and responds quickly, but sometimes she literally ignores me. I just can’t tell if she likes me or trying to play hard to get or something. She talked a little about guys but I can’t really tell her sexual orientation because every time I brought up lgbt related stuff or talk about one of my exes she would ignore it/not express her opinion and sometimes she would even seem quite unsatisfied. It seems to me that she’s afraid of her own feeling and probably closeted and trying to suppress. But I’m afraid to make a move and be wrong.I feel like we are a really good match and I think we could really hit it off, and I don’t wanna miss this chance but at the same time I don’t wanna mess this up. How do I approach this situation? What can I do?
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