Few questions here, for anyone who might have some insight.
Firstly, I am soon to join the Navy and my chosen job is SEAL. I am not necessarily what most people who know me would call the movie type image for this job (given my libra moon i tend to be very cheery in a goofy way, I do not at all 'act' the tough guy often), but I feel I fit correctly into this position and am qualified in all appropriate areas. I have further plans for after the 8 years minimum I will be devoting to this, but I am curious as to my likelihood of surviving it. Ridiculous question I know, to ask "When am i going to die?" but having lived deep within the 12th for so long I somewhat feel it would not be surprising if that was the outcome given this choice of occupation. I am not depressed or worried about it, just curious. I guess the more precise thing I am wondering that leads me to this- Am i going to die alone? Companionless? Which brings me to the next point-
The loneliness: Having my libra moon and all the absurd sensibilities of a Cancer there are few things in life that catch my interest as much as romance and companionship. I fall in love far too easily, and often dream of nothing else but a wonderful close relationship with some pretty girl. I am even good looking, yet for all of that I seem to have no luck in this department. I have had plenty of relationships but they have not worked out well having been built generally on my illusory projections of sentimental romance. Girls seem to avoid me or act unsure of me- even though I take care in my appearance and am not shy, nor socially awkward. I get along fine with plenty of girls, but any endeavor in which I attempt to form a closer relationship falls to pieces or is squashed strangely somehow usually in a very hurtful way. The same could be said of friends- I have a few very very close friendships, and I make new friends very easily, but in the long run people generally end up seeing me as an enemy or an oddity. I am always on the outside of society, despite having dedicated many years to being socially graceful and managing my presentation. Again, I do not fall on my face in these endeavors initially- I am generally successful in getting people to like me, and women are generally smitten with me at first. Somehow though it always decays and I find myself always ... alone in life. I am not depressed about this anymore, It has taken alot to get used to the fact that I can not share the wonderful joy the world offers with other people often, which is all I really want. I just want to know if anyone here has any confirmation of these things in my chart or any advice.
To play cheeky/devil's advocate regarding my 12th house positions, Yes- My relationship with my father was one of abandonment and now is often combative and strained, I tend toward being nocturnal, and as I said above, somehow always end up being the bad guy or enemy in most situations, despite the fact that I am actually very sincere and empathetic and compassionate, and genuinely do care more about others than myself- others meaning anyone really, to my detriment often.
To be clear these things have all made me stronger and I do not feel like a victim. We all have roles to play in life, and these seem merely to be the overtones of mine...
Firstly, I am soon to join the Navy and my chosen job is SEAL. I am not necessarily what most people who know me would call the movie type image for this job (given my libra moon i tend to be very cheery in a goofy way, I do not at all 'act' the tough guy often), but I feel I fit correctly into this position and am qualified in all appropriate areas. I have further plans for after the 8 years minimum I will be devoting to this, but I am curious as to my likelihood of surviving it. Ridiculous question I know, to ask "When am i going to die?" but having lived deep within the 12th for so long I somewhat feel it would not be surprising if that was the outcome given this choice of occupation. I am not depressed or worried about it, just curious. I guess the more precise thing I am wondering that leads me to this- Am i going to die alone? Companionless? Which brings me to the next point-
The loneliness: Having my libra moon and all the absurd sensibilities of a Cancer there are few things in life that catch my interest as much as romance and companionship. I fall in love far too easily, and often dream of nothing else but a wonderful close relationship with some pretty girl. I am even good looking, yet for all of that I seem to have no luck in this department. I have had plenty of relationships but they have not worked out well having been built generally on my illusory projections of sentimental romance. Girls seem to avoid me or act unsure of me- even though I take care in my appearance and am not shy, nor socially awkward. I get along fine with plenty of girls, but any endeavor in which I attempt to form a closer relationship falls to pieces or is squashed strangely somehow usually in a very hurtful way. The same could be said of friends- I have a few very very close friendships, and I make new friends very easily, but in the long run people generally end up seeing me as an enemy or an oddity. I am always on the outside of society, despite having dedicated many years to being socially graceful and managing my presentation. Again, I do not fall on my face in these endeavors initially- I am generally successful in getting people to like me, and women are generally smitten with me at first. Somehow though it always decays and I find myself always ... alone in life. I am not depressed about this anymore, It has taken alot to get used to the fact that I can not share the wonderful joy the world offers with other people often, which is all I really want. I just want to know if anyone here has any confirmation of these things in my chart or any advice.
To play cheeky/devil's advocate regarding my 12th house positions, Yes- My relationship with my father was one of abandonment and now is often combative and strained, I tend toward being nocturnal, and as I said above, somehow always end up being the bad guy or enemy in most situations, despite the fact that I am actually very sincere and empathetic and compassionate, and genuinely do care more about others than myself- others meaning anyone really, to my detriment often.
To be clear these things have all made me stronger and I do not feel like a victim. We all have roles to play in life, and these seem merely to be the overtones of mine...