Hi, I'm very new (this is the first astrology forum I've joined), love astrology and hope to one day permeate the secret dimensions behind the planets, stars and psyche as many of you do. But for now, my knowledge is pretty limited beyond rulers of planets and such...soooo, I'm a learner, but would like to ask for any help you can offer on synastry between me and one special dude.
So...this guy and I haven't seen each other for about 4 years. We both were really interested in each other but due to another "friend's" meddling and the difficulty of communication/trust between the two of us, he perceived that I hated him and went all vengeful on me.
He very much expresses the stellium Scorpio shown in his chart, it's what I believe attracted me to him in the first place. I've never met anyone like him and consider him one of the important people in my life, right behind my family (despite the fact we only talked over the course of not even a year).
Over these years he's very much been the Phoenix falling to ashes, I believe that he is capable of rising again. When I knew him he was pretty popular and funny, very much into the occult (we connected quickly over this) and all around a nice guy who flirted a lot and did tons of drugs. Since then he's been alienated from all of his friends, family and his career isn't looking good. I feel like if he could just have someone tell him hey, you're not that awful of a guy, he might do much better, but I digress.
A few months ago he popped into mind (while I was dating someone else), looked him up and sure enough he had recently gotten in trouble with the law (nothing super scary, but has me worried). Since then I think of him everyday #.# I've made efforts to contact him (he doesn't have social media stuff so pretty difficult), to no avail.
From what I've gathered, we've got some good chemistry transits but I haven't seen anything that's like aha! you've found "the one" or past life connection other than my north node/sun/(black moon lilith) conjunction conjunct his chiron.
Is the reason I'm obsessing so much over this now because I feel the need to help him?
Any help at all will be greatly appreciated, thank you so much ^-^
Also, sorry I don't have his time of birth, no ascendant/houses
So...this guy and I haven't seen each other for about 4 years. We both were really interested in each other but due to another "friend's" meddling and the difficulty of communication/trust between the two of us, he perceived that I hated him and went all vengeful on me.
He very much expresses the stellium Scorpio shown in his chart, it's what I believe attracted me to him in the first place. I've never met anyone like him and consider him one of the important people in my life, right behind my family (despite the fact we only talked over the course of not even a year).
Over these years he's very much been the Phoenix falling to ashes, I believe that he is capable of rising again. When I knew him he was pretty popular and funny, very much into the occult (we connected quickly over this) and all around a nice guy who flirted a lot and did tons of drugs. Since then he's been alienated from all of his friends, family and his career isn't looking good. I feel like if he could just have someone tell him hey, you're not that awful of a guy, he might do much better, but I digress.
A few months ago he popped into mind (while I was dating someone else), looked him up and sure enough he had recently gotten in trouble with the law (nothing super scary, but has me worried). Since then I think of him everyday #.# I've made efforts to contact him (he doesn't have social media stuff so pretty difficult), to no avail.
From what I've gathered, we've got some good chemistry transits but I haven't seen anything that's like aha! you've found "the one" or past life connection other than my north node/sun/(black moon lilith) conjunction conjunct his chiron.
Is the reason I'm obsessing so much over this now because I feel the need to help him?
Any help at all will be greatly appreciated, thank you so much ^-^
Also, sorry I don't have his time of birth, no ascendant/houses