Pisces Adonis
Banned
A thing I notice people in the Astrology Community takes to the point of obsession is judging how compatible people will be based on Synastry (oh for you laymen out there, compatibility based on Astrological theory).
I'm not lying I seen a lot of people throughout various forums including this one ask if they should pursue a person based on what his or her charts say before taking action. I even seen people asking for advice based on the synastry for their dear one in a relationship!
Some people in the Astrological Community I've been to even refuse to consider a person if the chart shows a lot of negatives.
To begin with people don't always match their natal charts and some birth times are wrong.
But lets assume the people involved in Synastry match their Natal charts 100%. And their Synastry confirms a highly compatible relationship. As in near 100% ideal.
So we have a perfect relationship ehh? I DON'T think so. The Natal Chart can't tell the interests of the two people which are ONE of the MOST IMPORTANT factors in how well a relationship will succeed. It doesn't take into account differences in cultural, religious, ideologies and political beliefs, and social background and life experiences which honestly are the MOST IMPORTANT factors in a successful relationship. It doesn't take into account how attractive the two people being compared find each other (as ridiculous as it sounds GOOD LOOKS actually play an extremely important effect on how well a relationship will occur-esp. for some individuals).
And it doesn't take into account external factors like money and so forth.
I'm not completely putting synasty off. In fact I admit its VERY FUN to see just how much the synastry matches the relationship with someone you know almost completely!
In addition the Synastry can be used to detect potential problems or even current issues in the relationships and be used as a red flag to keep a watch out or to solve a problem.
But I really am of the school I play the major part of the direction the relationship goes as does my partner and unexpected factors.
I'm the much the kind of person who only looks at Synastry once I actually learn more about the person (as in we've been FRIENDS, not the "Acquaintance" I see you at work everyday kind of friend). In other words I'm the very last person you'll see who will be using Synastry or comparing our Zodiac Sign to see how well the relationship goes out. Because I honestly believe you cannot really tell how compatible you are with a person until you know them. I am off the school to even hope to use Synastry you must have known the person for sometime and even then it should enver be taken to seriously nor literally and at best as an indicator of red flags in the relationships to solve.
The interests you share, your background and various beliefs, and good looks play a far more important role than Synastry can ever hope to do so.
I'm not lying I seen a lot of people throughout various forums including this one ask if they should pursue a person based on what his or her charts say before taking action. I even seen people asking for advice based on the synastry for their dear one in a relationship!
Some people in the Astrological Community I've been to even refuse to consider a person if the chart shows a lot of negatives.
To begin with people don't always match their natal charts and some birth times are wrong.
But lets assume the people involved in Synastry match their Natal charts 100%. And their Synastry confirms a highly compatible relationship. As in near 100% ideal.
So we have a perfect relationship ehh? I DON'T think so. The Natal Chart can't tell the interests of the two people which are ONE of the MOST IMPORTANT factors in how well a relationship will succeed. It doesn't take into account differences in cultural, religious, ideologies and political beliefs, and social background and life experiences which honestly are the MOST IMPORTANT factors in a successful relationship. It doesn't take into account how attractive the two people being compared find each other (as ridiculous as it sounds GOOD LOOKS actually play an extremely important effect on how well a relationship will occur-esp. for some individuals).
And it doesn't take into account external factors like money and so forth.
I'm not completely putting synasty off. In fact I admit its VERY FUN to see just how much the synastry matches the relationship with someone you know almost completely!
In addition the Synastry can be used to detect potential problems or even current issues in the relationships and be used as a red flag to keep a watch out or to solve a problem.
But I really am of the school I play the major part of the direction the relationship goes as does my partner and unexpected factors.
I'm the much the kind of person who only looks at Synastry once I actually learn more about the person (as in we've been FRIENDS, not the "Acquaintance" I see you at work everyday kind of friend). In other words I'm the very last person you'll see who will be using Synastry or comparing our Zodiac Sign to see how well the relationship goes out. Because I honestly believe you cannot really tell how compatible you are with a person until you know them. I am off the school to even hope to use Synastry you must have known the person for sometime and even then it should enver be taken to seriously nor literally and at best as an indicator of red flags in the relationships to solve.
The interests you share, your background and various beliefs, and good looks play a far more important role than Synastry can ever hope to do so.