Andrea_
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Ooo, i laughed so much at this Not only I have Venus conjunct Uranus, but i have 2 whole stelliums conjucting Uranus in the 1st House across two signs!
It's like a train: Asc conj Mars conj Mercury conj Juno 1st House Cappy. Mercury conjunct Neptune and Uranus; between Mars and Uranus there are 10 degrees or such, however this might also be called a stellium. Then Neptune conjunct Uranus (in cappy) conjunct Venus conjunct Moon (in Aquarius). This one is much tighter.
Furthermore, because my natal chart is pretty tight, i do not have any squares, oppositions, or contra-parallels between asc/mc/planets, and the majority of my important midpoints are occupied. I am not one-sided and my mind doesn't only go one way at all as some peeps say about stelliums, but i can be very concentrated and serious and i like to research a lot. My mind is ever curious about anything that moves and spins. Then again i have an out of bonds mercury that i found a blessing until now (really, i can't seem to fit into "a box", or like it in the first place) I can be idealistic and this extends to my relationships: i realize i ask a lot from myself and possibly from the other one, so i don't go into any kind relationships because i would dislike myself if i hurt or broken someone with my sometimes very direct nature and rythm, no matter how much i feel like i want to have someone by my side at one point. And winning my own respect (for myself...) was already hard enough... even if i get approached by a lot of people generally and i make deep friendships, in the relationship sector i am... picky, and also quite sensible, no matter how hard my outer shell gets, but they say that when you stop denying your weak points they become your strength
I had to learn to establish my boundaries anyways, and i often isolated myself when things got out of hand because of how annoying or draining i found people at one point. I had to learn to see them in a more... understanding light to come to give the respect i also wanted to receive, and the spiritual teachings and such actually did help me on a personal level regardless of how science fiction a big majority thinks these sound. The path society points while trying to use their "rational minds" can be a big illusion
Now to answer the Qs:
1. No, not really. This might be because I am a heavy cappy with saturn-neptune mutual reception final dispositorship (except for my Saggitarius jupiter in hayz. This buddy's the only one getting away from it). I also have Pluto from the 10th/11th (scorp-sagg) cusp house sextiling my neptune-uranus-venus-moon stellium
2. YES T_T. It's like an unwritten rule to meet someone who seems cool and we want to be together but we're from different countries or one of us has to go away shortly. I think this is why i'm studying foreign languages and cultures, hmm : )) although i took this decision before i started delving into astrology for a change
3. Yes, i do know and am friends with quite some unconventional folks but still try to maintain the integrity appearance for the sake of it and "how it should be". I don't come from the most open-minded country to new ideas and such at all so i had to make some compromises xD
4. Yes, i won't accept anyone into my life but if i like someone, i will give it away after a while maybe and try not letting it burn. If there is something i don't like that's superficiality and "going from flower to flower"
5. Hmm, no, but i usually don't feel the need to be in the center of attention in this way
6. Yes, but not before talking or seeing that the relationship is actually not working anymore
7. I need both someone i can be with a lot and who understand that sometimes i will need the time by myself. But then again, i have this 12th House Sun and need to re-establish my boundaries >.> Nature/animals/physical activity/drawing/painting/pursuing other hobbies will of course help a lot, and the best part is that they are doable with a 2nd one haha
8. pretty much
9. i don't mind this that much, even controlling people can change if you don't give them reasons to act this way, albeit yes, i prefer someone who isn't sticky, which is different from a loving personality
10. No and no. Talking directly is the best way, although i wouldn't mind if we first met over internet and noticed and befriended each other because of similar hobbies or because we can talk a lot and easier and co but that's different from your original question
11. Affectionate no, exaggeratedly affectionate yes.
12. No, but i can be independent myself and i like not having to depend on someone's affection or approval at this stage of my life ^^ I'm not even 20 lol
It's like a train: Asc conj Mars conj Mercury conj Juno 1st House Cappy. Mercury conjunct Neptune and Uranus; between Mars and Uranus there are 10 degrees or such, however this might also be called a stellium. Then Neptune conjunct Uranus (in cappy) conjunct Venus conjunct Moon (in Aquarius). This one is much tighter.
Furthermore, because my natal chart is pretty tight, i do not have any squares, oppositions, or contra-parallels between asc/mc/planets, and the majority of my important midpoints are occupied. I am not one-sided and my mind doesn't only go one way at all as some peeps say about stelliums, but i can be very concentrated and serious and i like to research a lot. My mind is ever curious about anything that moves and spins. Then again i have an out of bonds mercury that i found a blessing until now (really, i can't seem to fit into "a box", or like it in the first place) I can be idealistic and this extends to my relationships: i realize i ask a lot from myself and possibly from the other one, so i don't go into any kind relationships because i would dislike myself if i hurt or broken someone with my sometimes very direct nature and rythm, no matter how much i feel like i want to have someone by my side at one point. And winning my own respect (for myself...) was already hard enough... even if i get approached by a lot of people generally and i make deep friendships, in the relationship sector i am... picky, and also quite sensible, no matter how hard my outer shell gets, but they say that when you stop denying your weak points they become your strength
I had to learn to establish my boundaries anyways, and i often isolated myself when things got out of hand because of how annoying or draining i found people at one point. I had to learn to see them in a more... understanding light to come to give the respect i also wanted to receive, and the spiritual teachings and such actually did help me on a personal level regardless of how science fiction a big majority thinks these sound. The path society points while trying to use their "rational minds" can be a big illusion
Now to answer the Qs:
1. No, not really. This might be because I am a heavy cappy with saturn-neptune mutual reception final dispositorship (except for my Saggitarius jupiter in hayz. This buddy's the only one getting away from it). I also have Pluto from the 10th/11th (scorp-sagg) cusp house sextiling my neptune-uranus-venus-moon stellium
2. YES T_T. It's like an unwritten rule to meet someone who seems cool and we want to be together but we're from different countries or one of us has to go away shortly. I think this is why i'm studying foreign languages and cultures, hmm : )) although i took this decision before i started delving into astrology for a change
3. Yes, i do know and am friends with quite some unconventional folks but still try to maintain the integrity appearance for the sake of it and "how it should be". I don't come from the most open-minded country to new ideas and such at all so i had to make some compromises xD
4. Yes, i won't accept anyone into my life but if i like someone, i will give it away after a while maybe and try not letting it burn. If there is something i don't like that's superficiality and "going from flower to flower"
5. Hmm, no, but i usually don't feel the need to be in the center of attention in this way
6. Yes, but not before talking or seeing that the relationship is actually not working anymore
7. I need both someone i can be with a lot and who understand that sometimes i will need the time by myself. But then again, i have this 12th House Sun and need to re-establish my boundaries >.> Nature/animals/physical activity/drawing/painting/pursuing other hobbies will of course help a lot, and the best part is that they are doable with a 2nd one haha
8. pretty much
9. i don't mind this that much, even controlling people can change if you don't give them reasons to act this way, albeit yes, i prefer someone who isn't sticky, which is different from a loving personality
10. No and no. Talking directly is the best way, although i wouldn't mind if we first met over internet and noticed and befriended each other because of similar hobbies or because we can talk a lot and easier and co but that's different from your original question
11. Affectionate no, exaggeratedly affectionate yes.
12. No, but i can be independent myself and i like not having to depend on someone's affection or approval at this stage of my life ^^ I'm not even 20 lol
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