I have earth rising and 3 planets in earth signs but both ex-wives were Capricorns, so I don't think your theory is true. Most other relationships were water or earth Suns/Moons also and I have several water planets.
Your chart overall can displace a lot of things. I suppose it depends where your personal planets are falling as well. For me, by Placidus my Mars/Moon in Libra fall into 7th which automatically means that I project my Fiery energy outside. I was highlighting the Sun Sign mainly. It gets complicated to analyse relationships if it's planet-wise.
With an air water emphasis (and also with a fire earth emphasis) there is an inherent tension between the two emphasised elements, and this can preoccupy the person for a long time because one element is often identified with and the other projected powerfully onto others. This can set set the scene for a lifetime of relating. But it seems that perhaps this doesn't apply to you.
If you have planets in Gemini, Cancer and Pisces, then this could explain why you are attracted to the opposite signs of Sagittarius, Capricorn and Virgo.
Another thing that springs to mind is that perhaps your father was strong in some of these signs, even though this did not show up especially strongly in the 'father significators' of your own chart. Or perhaps it did show up as something like a Sagittarian IC.
Always one of my favorite members because you look beyond the superficial. I like the points you made on Gemini, Pisces, Cancer & the complimentary opposites indeed does ring true. I didn't notice that feature till now. The
lineage of Aries perhaps might be explained by the heavy
Libran Focus of my chart which would complete the Complementary series.
Saggitarius falls on my MC... think that's rightful dad-position if I remember correctly.
You've given astrology interpretation a new dimension.
Thanks so much! Love having your input!
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I have the least amount of air in my chart. Though I do have my North node in Gemini, my IC in Libra and my Descendant in Aquarius. Plus most of my most important asteroids like Hygeia, Vesta and Juno are in air signs. Plus the airy planets Mercury and Uranus are 2 of the strongest in my chart. So despite the lack of planets in air signs in my chart I wouldn't say there is a lack of the element in my chart.
I'll admit there is generally a very strong physical attraction. But that's where it ends. I prefer watery ladies the best and water is my 2nd strongest element, just slightly below fire.
Fire-would find Air attractive. It's rather interesting that you would select a watery type. In my personal experience, I only get along with Fiery types if they have water elements very dominant otherwise I feel like I douse their flames out.
I'm not a big fan of asteroids, so I over-look them. I'm sure I wouldn't be lacking any element if I should use those. But as stated earlier, perhaps we attract according to our projection areas or the more prominent Moon/Mars.
Nature seeks equilibrium (balance)-ideally there would be a balance of all 4 elements; I do believe that a driving force (within the subtle energy field) of each living being, is toward the ideal of equilibrium (balance, "completion") of the elemental foundation of that being.
I would certainly agree, especially with my Libran dominance that the universe seeks balance. Thank You for completing this thread so beautifully.