Hi.
I know this is painful, and I'm sorry you are hurting. You have some very difficult progressions currently, (progressed chiron angular at the IC, saturn angular on the dsc) it will get better though just realize he wasn't good for you. If he is married, and moving out of the country whether he is lying or not it doesn't matter anymore, since its either true or he is lying to ends things. Either way, he has ended things with you. You need to process that and let the idea of you and him being together go, as difficult as that may be. From what you said, it sounds like you met in person after 2 years of knowing each other. You have neptune in the 1st house natally, which allows people to project ideals onto you. This would be especially true for people that don't know you in real life/in person, this is a great placement for actors for that very reason. With this placement I'd advise against allowing so much time to pass before meeting someone in real life to prevent such things from getting out of hand and/or wasting your time.
What is clear is this guy is a jerk and immature, and you deserve someone better. Looking at your charts, I hope there is someone you can talk out your feelings to, preferably another female you can confide in? Please know this is not the end of the world, though it probably feels like it right now. You should call this guy out for being a jerk. Because that fact of the matter is he was either talking about marriage with you while working on a separate relationship, or decided he wasn't interested anymore and made up some convoluted lie because he was too immature to be honest with you about what he was thinking/feeling not caring if he hurt you in the process. That is a Jerk with a capital J. You deserve better than this.
take care, and be strong, you will overcome this.
I was involved with a person for 2 years and considered the person to be soulmate.He was everything what I wanted in my husband.We had talked about marriage and was waiting for him.Suddenly the person became aloof and stopped communication after meeting.Now he says he got married and going abroad as this is the method to solve his problems.
Is he lying or cheating.Why is he doing this?Can I regain the relationship.
Pls help.My DOB -13/09/1973 10:20 am kolkata