why am i not able to achieve n get caught in family matters?

why am i not able to achieve anything in my life? i feel lost and more so losing interest in life, and getting caught up with family matters, my parents well-being and health problems. i don't get along with my siblings, the way they treat me makes me angry and hurt so much so that i do not wish to maintain any relations with them. i feel nobody understands me or cares enough. in a having a partner too, i have been very unfortunate. how much more grief do i need to go through?

details august 29, 1987. time: 03:05 am. place: raipur, chhattisgarh.

Jupiter owns the VI house and it is in sambandh with Mars. Therefore disputes and tension should be a result of the major-period of Jupiter which has been operating in your chart since June/2008. It will end in June/2024.
Mercury owns the III house and it is associated with Mars. Hence you are having tension with your younger siblings.
Jupiter projects aspect to aspect to Venus which owns the XI house. Therefore you may be having tension with your elder siblings as well. Same is the case with your parents.
May try reading Hanuman Chalisa seven times a day but do not expect immediate results. In time it will tone down the adverse effect of Mars.

Actually, you've got some nice yogas there, Rajayoga, Gaja-Kesari yoga, Lakshmi yoga. And you are currently running Jupiter Mahadasha. But your Jupiter is weak. So you may have to wait for your Moon Antardasha.

currently sat retro towards natal scorpio 5th in sadesati, under great stress,
impacting luck, education, romance, position, etc
though may have research occult aptitudes,
sat lord 8th for challenges-chronic disease etc.
float 1.25kg black uraddal over a flowing river for sat scorpio,
tues after sunset; or donate at Mata Mahakali temple
light til diya daily evening; observe fast on sat evenings.

after 4-5m sat turns direct sag 6th good for employment matters,
and coping with challenges of life, the opponents, etc, feeling better.


jup lord 9th for luck sooner now turns direct over moon libra 4th,
aspecting natal jup aries 10th, good for domestic comforts and career,
and property matters, and support from mother. jup dasa.
wear yellow stone over gold pendant for jup/bhagyesh, retro delaying things.

jup retro over aries 10th delaying progress in career matters,
retro jupiter equal to elevated jup,
retro jup towards own pisces 9th good for luck-education,
retro jup-rahu pisces mastery over one's subject, acting skills,
but prone to vitiate judgment and lead to rise-fall in life to care,
rahu pisces seeking sensitivity in life - learning to be sensitive,

recently jup-rahu transit leo 2nd for family-finances, rise-fall,

float 1.25kg rai/mustard seeds over flowing river,
thurs after sunset for natal rahu. or donate at saibaba temple.
rahu over 9th for father-husband; settling life at 42+
need for pilgrimage. may visit kalahasthy temple near tirupati.


ketu virgo 3rd, hyper-critical thinking, rash actions and accident prone,
arms-shoulders-ears-hips etc, detachment from siblings;
currently ketu transit acq 8th and accident prone.
donate 1.25kg white til each month to Mata Durga on a wed after sunset.


the 2nd stellium sun leo etc, tending to detachment from family;
placing high value on finances, impressive speech, etc, trine jup;
mars leo 2nd could however be temperamental in speech and proud;
while finances could be volatile, coming and going;

current rahu transit over leo 2nd clouding things.
light karpoor arathy daily morning for rahu transit leo these months.

asc lord moon weak in libra at early deg, wavery mind,
attachment to mother, chitra nakshatra studious and stubborn, designer;
wear white pearl over silver ring, jupiter's finger;
jup karaka for marriage-husband-father-luck-education-dharma;

lords 1/7 moon-sat over libra-scorpio lords mars-venus
with mutual attractions, inclined to marriage.
mars-venus conjunct leo 2nd for family-finances,
artistic aptitudes, financial management-equity research/advisory role etc

hope information enables reflect as relevant,
share pointwise feedbacks,

best wishes,


kshantaram

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kshantaram said:

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Hi, sorry for not getting back to your response earlier.

I actually am a little confused because you explained astrologically in between and what it means. i will try my best to answer the way i can.

yes, very true. i have a strong attachment with both my parents. and i have support from them both, more so from my mother, yes. i also have an assertive sometimes aggressive speech while talking with people and also, proud/strong conviction. yes, i do have interest in mysterious things including astrology and also, astronomy and intuitions etc. i also have a chronic health issue with sinusitis and bronchitis but somehow i feel it's getting little bit better with age. i am quite sensitive as a person to my surroundings. also i have high expectations from my loved ones. but slowly realizing the depth of things and learning to be detached or not to have expectations in life. inclined to marriage but now am not so sure because it's challenging to find someone who is on a similar wave length. i love creativity but somewhere i know that if do that as a profession it will not give me satisfaction in the long run. so i want to do something that has a deeper meaning in life. that's why i am practicing yoga, it has a meaning for me. it's not true for me so far about detachment from the family and importance on the finances. it's the other way round for me, very attached to my whole big family and i don't really care about the finances.

sorry if i have missed out on anything and for the late reply.
thank you for your effort in responding. much appreciated.

appreciate the candid feedbacks though belated,
hope current transits helps take stock as relevant and helps,


rahu now 1.5yr transit cancer asc trine natal rahu 9th pisces,
tending to foreign travels-pilgrimage probably;

jup transit asc lord moon over 4th libra,
jup lord 9th for luck transit 4th,
again tending to distant lands, distancing from father;

jup also lord 6th sag, transit moon libra 4th,
tending to health issues for self and mother,
circulatory issues, kidneys, heart-lungs etc,
and stress in property matters perhaps;

jup libra aspect aries 10th, supportive of career;

jup now 4-5m retrograde, reviewing and delaying things,
while retro jup now towards virgo 3rd,
aspects own pisces-rahu 9th supportive of
luck and foreign travels-pilgrimage these months;

sat now 2.5yrs transit sag 6th, transit 3rd from moon,
good for health and employment prospects these years;

ketu transit cap 7th now,
indifferent towards relationship-marriage;
pain-injury abdominals-knees etc


do share feedbacks how true-insightful etc


wishing well, kshantaram

kshantaram said:

appreciate the candid feedbacks though belated,
hope current transits helps take stock as relevant and helps,


rahu now 1.5yr transit cancer asc trine natal rahu 9th pisces,
tending to foreign travels-pilgrimage probably;

jup transit asc lord moon over 4th libra,
jup lord 9th for luck transit 4th,
again tending to distant lands, distancing from father;

jup also lord 6th sag, transit moon libra 4th,
tending to health issues for self and mother,
circulatory issues, kidneys, heart-lungs etc,
and stress in property matters perhaps;

jup libra aspect aries 10th, supportive of career;

jup now 4-5m retrograde, reviewing and delaying things,
while retro jup now towards virgo 3rd,
aspects own pisces-rahu 9th supportive of
luck and foreign travels-pilgrimage these months;

sat now 2.5yrs transit sag 6th, transit 3rd from moon,
good for health and employment prospects these years;

ketu transit cap 7th now,
indifferent towards relationship-marriage;
pain-injury abdominals-knees etc


do share feedbacks how true-insightful etc


wishing well, kshantaram

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thank you once again. i really marvel at today's day and age, people from anywhere and any place connect with you and respond to you. it's touching.

yes, minor health issues here and there for sure since a while. but thankfully, nothing major as i really don't like doctor visits. i am very tempted to go travel abroad but i would rather spend time with parents even though sometimes it drives me crazy. but in the future i don't want the regret to have missed the chance of spending time with my parents. one astrologer friend said that rahu transit over my ascendant is making me confused and that's the reason am practicing yoga asanas. but yoga practice is not my path. i dont know.. but all i know is yoga makes me happy and keeps me grounded and other deeper things. indifferent toward relationships? not really, if there was anyone compatible in a deeper sense (also) as it's quite rare to find a person who has a sense of depth and sensitivity and compassion.

jup now transit sat scorpio 5th, hope promotes job prospects,
research-occult aptitudes,
trine rahu 9th for foreign travels,
rahu transit 12th gemini for foreign lands;
sat lord 7th for marriage too;

jup effective mid-transit feb-may 019 to watch;

jup scorpio elevated aspect cancer asc,
for health and wellbeing;

16yrs jup dasa till age 37; jup bhagyesh;
natal jup over aries 10th for career, retro, delaying results;
wear yellow sapphire over pendant touching heart;
light cow ghee diya daily morning at the pooja at home;

sat-ketu coming 1.5yr transit sag 6th, transit 3rd from moon,
pain-injury-surgery thighs-intestinal-hips etc,
prone to job separations to care;
natal ketu virgo 3rd, hyper-critical, rash actions, accident prone;
donate 125gms white til at Mata Durga temple wednesdays after sunset;

natal sat 5th scorpio negating employment prospects,
float 1.25kg black uraddal over clean flowing river
tues after sunset, prayers to Mata Mahakali.

rahu pisces 9th settling life at 42+,
float 1.25kg mustard seeds/rai over clean flowing river
thurs after sunset, prayers at Meenakshi temple;


do promptly ack, share feedbacks how true-insightful etc


wishing well, kshantaram