Fercel
Using the Sun lord of the 5th house sign Leo as his sig., the romance is controlled of that planet and it's movement, also consider Moon as the sig of your third house lord and your co/ruler, his 11th house hopes and wishes 11th, turning the wheel.
Sun makes no movement in the sense of a gentleman pressing his suit to gain ground in the romance department (the aspects he makes are hard and of a discordant energy.) In other words there is no direction he makes himself to ensure the romance will continue in a gentlemanly observance-courting way. indication is obstacle's to the flow of ease. (no flowers/candy midnight calls to say goodnight, I'm going to be dreaming of you..sorry) Catch as catch can in other words, he is not directed in eagerness=a No answer. Habits/work play a role, you being sad (Mercury on your Ascendant, communication to him, Virgo emerging on the Asc. 5th for him and 5th of romantic thoughts for you.) You hiding (personal Aries in the 12th-his active masculine aggressive energies 8th) thoughts of being involved with him in a romantic fashion is also apparent with Mercury here on your Asc. hiding in the 12th h.
Did you recently have an opportunity to express your self in these areas but feigned to directly address them with him? He doesn't want to hurt you so it is important you should understand that by you making the first move you will relieve him of direct physical contact responsibilities, (the influence of Virgo on the 5th house is reticent=expectant of other's making the first move..Virgo follows and uses methodical methods to achieve progress, plummeting the depths..of your mind, hints and such..clues) throwing caution to the winds to relieve him of any type of duty along the lines of a higher course of anything more than a tryst should be expected (Sun opposes Jupiter in the marriage Libra sign in the future 6th house (being 2nd h. of the 5th is indicative of future expectations) of interludes for him. Are you in his heart, well in a thoughtful way as a friend. Have you given him clues to something other than friendship to be expected?
Another indication is the host of your Ascendant=Mars, one of the lords upon the last degrees of the 5th house. A direct approach by you as mentioned, is the catalyst-under your personal initiation. But the Moon as your co-lord has the energy to also initiate the emotional verve or action by conversation (in your third house, as mentioned above and his 11th of hopes sooo if you are in his home territory or he in yours, viola.) (but I think it will be in his, he hopes to invite you to view his new digs? or something similar-a visit to a close friends house? When you are in his vicinity.)
Virgo lord of (5th/6th) involves conversation attempts-everything along the line of calling him and making the effort to see him will be in your ball court so to speak. The last degrees of the sign of Leo upon the 5th house, (he has almost given the idea as a nix to being realized=No) with Saturn/Mars as lords, and so additionally the movement or temperament will be understood of these two lords traits to progress a last resort attempt of Leo's meanings, love, attraction.
Saturn tends to deny and Mars is direct and like a bull in a china shop in Taurus/a place of detriment, a possible disagreement or variance of ideals shared in the romance having something to do with being stuck in a rut. (Active (Mars) monetary concerns will play a role in proximity issues.)
Sorry to put a damper on your hopes, the progress as I see it is made solely from your efforts to keep the possibilities energetic and alive..he has feeling for you..but does not have the ignition efforts to pursue on his own as mentioned bc planetary energies already mentioned above are diminishing his hopes. Pay attention to the last aspect the Moon makes in the emotional/feeling sign of Cancer. The Moon is dignity here..and that is how he will address his emotions towards you.
Venus is moving into Aries in the chart another indication she will be direct and in detriment in her expression (communion of a clandestine 12th nature) but she is in a mutual exchange of harmony with your Mars in Taurus (some dignity here, as Mars already has some relief in his host 1st house) in the first..his masculine moves are influenced by your verve and will follow your lead-going with the flow so to speak. He needs direction to pursue.
Wishing you the best truly..
All the best
Vyri