First of all,
the 8th house does not show the manner of death. If it did, the life insurance industry would be all over this one. Some astrologers think you can predict death from the horoscope but the methods are fairly complicated; and then, the predictions are often wrong.
Please keep in mind the good things ruled by Uranus, like science, aviation, electronics, and innovation.
Everyone born around your daughter's age will have Uranus square Pluto, as these are both slow-moving planets. The trines from Uranus to Saturn and Venus are beneficial, and then Jupiter tends to soften and improve what it touches.
I have a little grandson born within just a few days of your daughter.