You write:
Q: I guess its just Retrograde Mercury which made us get in touch with each other?
A: More like, Merc retrograde made you get in touch with her, as in: "I just messaged her few days back."
Q: What does "will share the same sign briefly" means she is also Mercury right?
A: Mercury retrogrades briefly back into Leo and Venus is in the lower degrees of Leo.
Q: Retrogrades towards her?
A: yes
Q: how to delineate this? Mercury approaching Venus?
A: You/Merc are taking action toward Venus/her and move toward her.
Q: "your two significators do not meet" One is Mercury,
which one is other? Moon?
A: No, Venus.
Q: what meeting means? conjunct?
A: Yes.
Good questions, acmicasa.
This clears lot of confusion but raises new questions. Please be patient with my queries and consider me as a student. Now, lets reel back in time when I posted question.
Who querent is crystal clear. Here its Mercury.
Who/what regrading quesited is fifth house (will debate on this later), and its lord is Mercury.
Q:Here the querent and quesited both are represented by Mercury? If so, in such situation what to do?
Venus being feminine planet represents her. Is this the only reason to consider her as Venus in male asking question.
Q: What if the querent is female. Then Mars will be considered to represent male about whom question is asked?
Q: Sharing same sign gives indication sharing same thought, harmony in mind, synchronization in thinking, and getting along well?
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The debate on quesited house. The fifth house is chosen for this which is house of love, romance, progeny. It seems like fifth house is kind of divinely where if sex exits it exists out of love.
Here the querent is clear about love and commitment. He is looking to share thoughts, wants to care (not love), and wants to establish, if it happens, sexual journey with her. If it is so, then why not taking 12th house of bed pleasures, and 8th house of out of the box kind of male-female partnership. May be this explains moon in 7th house. And its conjunction with Saturn indicating his fear how she will take this partnership?
Q: Why 12th and 8th house and their lords not considered ?
She was chosen to be Venus.
Q:Why not consider her from 3rd house (office colleague) and represent her with its lord, or 11th house (Friend circle) and represent her with its lord?