How does Conjunct, Sextiles, Trines, and Squares affect how you appear to others?

I have a lot of Sextiles in my chart compared to Conjunctions and Squares but how do I use them positively or how do they affect me? Same for Squares...

Venus Conjunct Mars
Venus Conjunct Mc
Venus Conjunct Aphrodite
Venus Sextile Ascendant
Venus Sextile North Node
Venus Square Saturn
Ceres Conjunct Ascendant
Neptune Sextile Ascendant
Pluto Square Ascendant
Eros Sextile Ascendant