Okay...
Maybe you think you're direct when you aren't. When you ask people for direct answers they probably don't even tell you or understand because is opposes your Mars energy. Besides, it's not about asking people what they want;
it's about telling people what you want. Like right there, that's a Mars in Cancer problem.
I answered this by stating in my first sentence that I say what I mean and mean what I say which implies directness and that I am able to communicate what I want.
Literally everything I said about Mars in Cancer would be found on a decent website or astrology book and, yet, like
4 people are telling me that I totally got it wrong. Sorry, I don't make up the rules.
I don't believe that there are hard and fast rules in astrology- didn't say you were wrong; one good or bad planet placement does not a chart make. What I stated was that certain things about this placement were not true for me; not everyone with the same placement can be painted with the same broad brush.
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Aspects definitely play a major role, though.
But don't tell me my Mars in Cancer explanation is wrong because it doesn't fit you. Either you need to stop believing in astrology because you disagree with its explainations, or realize that my description is clearly not going to include your Mars aspects. But that is Mars in Cancer on a soul level.
Again, having a different opinion or experience on a subject does not make you wrong- none of us are wrong if that is truly our experience and our experiences can be based our individual charts and how these aspects/placements play out in our lives. I understand this and don't tend to take these things too personally- that is my Mars placement on a soul level.
I don't understand how having a chart more difficult than siblings has anything to do with it.
I mentioned individual charts and used comparison between mine and my siblings' to possibly explain how different aspects can render different results (my siblings having more trines or unaspected Mars for example).