Hello )
I want to ask about the general meaning of neptune in a composite.
I have a neptune/moon aspect that is extremely relevant in my relationship with a friend, it is also conjunct the south node exactly.
It scares me a little... and maybe someone that has a similar experience or aspect playing out in this way can post here.
On astro, it says :
Be very careful if you have the square of Moon and Neptune in your composite horoscope. This aspect creates a great danger that one or both of you will deceive yourselves or each other, either about the nature of the relationship or about outside matters that affect it. It can produce a situation in which one of you has come to "help" the other with a very difficult psychological problem, such as alcohol or drugs. But with a Moon-Neptune square, the so- called helper is often motivated by the desire to escape from some personal problem by relating to someone whose problems appear to be worse.
Disappointment of one's idealsis perhaps the greatest danger presented by this aspect. Its negative effects can be prevented only by the most hard-nosed, pragmatic, and practical evaluation of the relationship. And unfortunately, that is the very thing that the Moon-Neptune energy tends to block.
This is the main dynamic of our relationship, actually.
He has a drinking problem. (I learned in time that its because of wanting to forget/frustrations/issues)
I remember when i first met him and we talked, he had 3 little bottles of beer around and he kept on drinking. Its been a while now and i have not seem him do the same thing again. I did not comment about his behaviour, he stopped on his own. Last night he confessed me that he doesnt feel like drinking anymore since he met me.. and that he sometimes feels like doing so but he wont act on it. He drank way worse in his past and he has been getting better, but my presence helped him stop.
I have had this effect on some people that i am close to. I am surprised, but in the same time im worrying.
I have trust issues... every time i think an important person is open to me like i am to them and honest, it turns out that there were many lies. Or psychopaths pretending they are good feelers. Etc. I have a hard time trusting people now. No one from my life makes me feel truly secure.
I want to ask about the general meaning of neptune in a composite.
I have a neptune/moon aspect that is extremely relevant in my relationship with a friend, it is also conjunct the south node exactly.
It scares me a little... and maybe someone that has a similar experience or aspect playing out in this way can post here.
On astro, it says :
Be very careful if you have the square of Moon and Neptune in your composite horoscope. This aspect creates a great danger that one or both of you will deceive yourselves or each other, either about the nature of the relationship or about outside matters that affect it. It can produce a situation in which one of you has come to "help" the other with a very difficult psychological problem, such as alcohol or drugs. But with a Moon-Neptune square, the so- called helper is often motivated by the desire to escape from some personal problem by relating to someone whose problems appear to be worse.
Disappointment of one's idealsis perhaps the greatest danger presented by this aspect. Its negative effects can be prevented only by the most hard-nosed, pragmatic, and practical evaluation of the relationship. And unfortunately, that is the very thing that the Moon-Neptune energy tends to block.
This is the main dynamic of our relationship, actually.
He has a drinking problem. (I learned in time that its because of wanting to forget/frustrations/issues)
I remember when i first met him and we talked, he had 3 little bottles of beer around and he kept on drinking. Its been a while now and i have not seem him do the same thing again. I did not comment about his behaviour, he stopped on his own. Last night he confessed me that he doesnt feel like drinking anymore since he met me.. and that he sometimes feels like doing so but he wont act on it. He drank way worse in his past and he has been getting better, but my presence helped him stop.
I have had this effect on some people that i am close to. I am surprised, but in the same time im worrying.
I have trust issues... every time i think an important person is open to me like i am to them and honest, it turns out that there were many lies. Or psychopaths pretending they are good feelers. Etc. I have a hard time trusting people now. No one from my life makes me feel truly secure.