in the Sun position of Aqua (det) vs. Libra (fall) as far so who's more corrupted and wayward, Aqua totally takes the cake. They only wish they could be like Leo but act out in the most weird and unsettling ways to achieve their ends and the sad part is, they don't even know or acknowledge that! As for Libra, their crime is sitting on the fence for fear of offending anyone. But Libra doesn't do damage to others the way that Aqua acts out.
Even Taurus Mars (det) vs Cancer Mars (fall), Taurus Mars can be totally dangerous whereas Cancer Mars is too scared to do anything.
I suppose perception is everything! Your experiences of these signs is vastly different to my own and perhaps it is because I am a Southern Hemisphere astrologer.
Sun sign Aquarians in my land are amongst the nicest people I know. They are actively involved in areas of social improvement and are almost always very kind. Though they are definitely a bit wacky their thought processes lead to quite new ways of approaching situations that, in my experience, has lead to great benefits. For example, my Aquarian great-uncle invented something that has become an icon in Australia, the idea was developed from my Aquarian grandmother's thoughts. I haven't met any Aquarians who desire to be Leos or act like Leos. However these are summer born Aquarians, for all I know winter born Aquarians might be as ridiculous as you describe.
Sun sign Librans do 'sit on the fence' as you have described. I have few as friends and getting then to tell you the actual truth is impossible. However, they are all dynamic, successful people. Perhaps this is because they are all born in the spring in my country, but I know a few Northern Hemisphere born Librans and they too do well in life and don't hide their light under a bushel.
Mars in Cancer is a fighter!! After all Mars is in a Cardinal sign. These will fight for the family and/or for their country and/or their business to their last breath, but won't waste their energy on matters they deem unimportant. I haven't met any timid Mars in Cancer people, thought I have met some volatile ones when they feel a member of their family has been insulted.
One of the most successful people in the astrological world I know has Mars in Taurus on the Ascendant. Without her work there would not be a major astrology program available. No one I know would describe her as ruthless, nasty or destructive, thought she can be a little volatile once in a while because this Mars is involved in a T square with Uranus and Jupiter.
My observations that people just didn't act in the 'inferior' way Northern Hemisphere text books described for planets in fall or detriment or the 'superior' way that planets in dignity and exaltation were supposed to give lead to me questioning this whole method of astrological mapping. When computer programs became available I did a great deal of research on people with planets in dignity, exaltation, detriment and fall and found a number of highly successful people with planetary placements in signs that should have given problems. These people used these planet-sign combinations very well indeed. As a result of this research and my observations, now I just think about how a planet would behave in a sign with the aspects it carries and delineate from that.
For example, look at the chart of one of the most successful astrologers/authors of the 20th Century, Noel Tyl (31st December 1936, 3.57 pm, West Chester, PA). He has Jupiter in Capricorn conjunct Sun in Capricorn in the 7th house, he has taught in every continent in the world and has had his books translated into a number of languages - he is globally famous. Jupiter is his oriental planet and has brought him all the benefits that is promised by this planet, even though it is in Capricorn. Nor is he mean, he offers free tutoring in one of his methods on his forum - the only famous astrologer I know who does this.
He has Mars in Libra and I have seen his tactical skills work to great effect a number of times.
Humans seem to want to be prejudiced and will find all kinds of ways to do this. In astrology planets in fall and detriment seem to be one of the major ways this is done. For example, to my horror the FAA Journal a few years ago published an article postulating that people with planets in detriment or fall were evil or more inclined to evil than people with planets in dignity or exaltation. This is beyond ridiculous! The editor of this magazine is a 'traditional' astrologer and quite happily published this appalling article.
Drazner93, I know Moon in Scorpio is a difficult placement, one of my best friends had this placement and my aforementioned grandmother had the Moon in Scorpio square Sun in Aquarius and opposing Pluto in Taurus -she wasn't an easy person to live with. However, she was intensely loyal, enormously intelligent and extremely hard working. She lifted her family from poverty to prosperity and this still continues many generations later. In spite of her planets in detriment and fall, her life was extremely successful, with considerable achievements in business and generations of descendants who are prosperous and happy.
Each planet-sign combination has its positives and negatives, it is up to the consulting astrologer to assess how these combinations will work in the house it resides and with the aspects it carries.
Alice