I converted your chart to Regiomontanus. There could be some fling but not a relationship.
Uranus in the first does show your transformation though.
Transformation, yes, basically so much of time was needed may be because my brain had to process multiple things, not merely love, but like abuse, manipulation etc. I guess, if a person gets to experience things one at a time, it takes less time and probably is healthy for development, but sometimes you are bombarded with multiple issues and brain goes haywire at emotional level.
Just gave a solution for those who are in depression and aren't able to figure out why. Your brain has to process lot of things and it takes time. When the emotional information is more than the capacity of human gene to handle it, it becomes difficult to handle such information.
Thanks for the reply, fling is fine.