look for chiron and eris aspects to mars and venus.
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define kinky
50 shades of grey has become a mass product making bdsm to be considered "normal"
Popular fiction doesn't make the fiction normal; generally those stories interest people because they aren't normal.
So no, BDSM isn't normal in the sense of widely practiced. But it is widely known about.
I'd associate kinkiness with Mars/Venus in Aquarius, or in strong aspect to Uranus (and that could go for any kind of kinkiness, as all that means is outside of the norm to me). Or Uranus on the cusp of the 5th or 8th houses, or in those houses, could be a possibility.
A young man that probably had the strangest sex life that I've known has Mars in Aquarius, square Scorpio Pluto, Venus in Capricorn and Sun conjunct Saturn in Scorpio. He is bisexual, into BDSM, participated in pornography, and definitely wasn't shy about any of it.
because saturn rules the outer core of the root chakra and in their case it's so strong it reduces the plutonic activity so they physically need to crack it to release some of the energy so they can start to feel good
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7tApWi_P2jw
if you want to look at people who are kinky right now those would be
Capricorn sun.What should one look for in a new partner's chart that might reveal aberrational sex, criminal (pedophilia, rape) or consensual (just kinky)? Better safe than sorry.
What should one look for in a new partner's chart that might reveal aberrational sex, criminal (pedophilia, rape) or consensual (just kinky)? Better safe than sorry.
Consensual kinky sex, Uranus with Mars, in good aspect
Rape and abuse, Pluto with Moon, Sun, Mars. challenging aspect,
Paedophilia, Pluto, Mars, perhaps with Mercury challenging aspects, but there are so many scenarios. Then there are the houses to consider. Composite charts for the relationship between the parties.
You would need to post the charts in question so we can take a look at the potentials. Anonymously of course.