Osamenor
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Actually my chart is very sex appealing but it's definitely a FEMALE CHART!!! The problem is I'm a heterosexual male.... My gender and the gender of my chart is mismatched...
Why do you say it's a female chart?
Actually my chart is very sex appealing but it's definitely a FEMALE CHART!!! The problem is I'm a heterosexual male.... My gender and the gender of my chart is mismatched...
Hmmmm... I'm a Libra rising with Pluto conjunct my Ascendant (Mars and Saturn first house also- so much fun). And in my fifth house I have BM Lilith. I must have sexy hobbies 😆
Why do you say it's a female chart?
Female planets and signs are prominent in my chart.
Which planets? Which signs?
Firstly, I have Cancer ASC and Moon conjunct my ASC in Cancer. So I don't have that super masculine aura that makes panties wet
I'm the friendzone guy....
My Mars is well placed in Scorpio but it's retrograde and choked by Saturn
Firstly, I have Cancer ASC and Moon conjunct my ASC in Cancer. So I don't have that super masculine aura that makes panties wet
I'm the friendzone guy....
My Mars is well placed in Scorpio but it's retrograde and choked by Saturn
Most probably if a person thinks they are sexy, then they are not.
I think as well definitely a lot of pluto will make a person sexy but also the aspect between 1st house (asc) and 8th house. I noticed as well that people who are following their passion always look super attractive so it is worth checking the 5th house as it rules hobbies and creativities. I feel once I started to tap into my 5th house energy I got noticed more by men.
Most probably if a person thinks they are sexy, then they are not.
From what I’ve heard from other cancers, most don’t like people much. So we’re happy to be invisible. Granted I feel like people notice me far more than I’d like and I must have done neon sign attached to meBut you'll never convince such a person that he's not too sexy for his shirt.
Logically, though, if people who think they're sexy are not, that must mean that people who think they're not sexy actually are.
Going back to helike13's issue, I think it's a question of how comfortable you are with yourself. Everyone is most likely to attract people, and the right kind of people for them, when they're living their birth chart in a comfortable way. That means being comfortable with yourself and who you are. That does not mean self denigration, and it certainly doesn't mean accept, if you don't like something you perceive in yourself, that this negative perception of yourself is fact. If you are accepting that, trickster Saturn is talking.
One possible manifestation of the Cancer archetype is the invisible person. That's the person who just fades into the woodwork, isn't noticed, gets taken for granted. Helike's description of being "the friendzone guy" sounds like that's what's going on.
That is, I think, especially a pitfall of Cancer rising, because rising sign is how you meet the world. If you have Cancer rising, you meet the world in a Cancer way. If the Cancer archetype you're manifesting is the invisible person, you have to shift to a different manifestation of Cancer in order to become noticeable.
From what I’ve heard from other cancers, most don’t like people much. So we’re happy to be invisible. Granted I feel like people notice me far more than I’d like and I must have done neon sign attached to me
Why do u think that is apart from the neon sign? Let’s see the chart L
Are you asking why do I think Cancers generally don't like people all that much, or why do I think the neon sign is there?Why do u think that is apart from the neon sign? Let’s see the chart L
Psychology (and PUAs) says women attracted to men emotionally. So if you want women attracted to you sexually then you must know how to play her emotional strings in a virtuous way and throw your crush onto an emotional rollercoaster to be attracted to you. And Cancer is the master of this stuff. But somehow I couldn't find my superpower....
Maybe if I learn how to work with my Cancer theme consciously I can make the disadvantage advantage.
I'll go ahead and just post my chart. I'm not sure where the 'neon sign' comes from. Perhaps the elevated Venus? PS, I don't mean by saying that that it's a sexual allure that draws people in. I'm not sure what it is lolWhy do u think that is apart from the neon sign? Let’s see the chart L
Are you asking why do I think Cancers generally don't like people all that much, or why do I think the neon sign is there?
(and I'll post my chart after)