bluemascara
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archergirl said:And look; if you want to be an actress, then go be an actress. 'Success' by its definition is flexible. If you mean 'success' as in 'as rich as Nicole Kidman', then the answer is unlikely; few people reach her heady heights or paycheck. But if it's something you desire, and you enjoy, and you have some talent for, then you will be 'successful' in some way, shape or form. We put far too much emphasis on outer manifestations of 'success' (fame, fortune, adulation) and don't focus on the inner pleasures and satisfactions we get from doing something we love, which is the real definition of success. Forget practicality. LIVE.
I speak from many years down the line. I always wanted to have a band. My best friend and I were going to be the next Duran Duran (oh! how that ages me! ), but I lacked self-confidence to pursue it. I'm now nearing forty, and am thinking about starting a band, because, heck, I'm old enough now to not care whether I 'make it' or not. I just want to do it and have some fun and wiggle around on stage in too-tight leather trousers. Life is short and often dreadfully boring. Don't wait another twenty years. Seize what moments you can. You have plenty of time later on to turn into a boring old fart.
AG
haha yes i agree!! I hope you start your band and it works out :-D