More problems in communicating as you get older, did you say?
How about the last 2-3 years?
Pluto has been transitting by square your natal Mercury, which is already square Neptune, as well as opposite your Ascendant. This is bound to have been making you more aware of any fears related to comunicating in general,and in confronting you with where you are maybe evasive in what you communicate with others.
Normally, it is possible that Mercury in Libra square Neptune may find it difficult to make decisions and be a little forgetful - what insights into any areas of muddled thinking and evasiveness have the recent Pluto transits brought you?
It may not always be pleasant, but thisa kind of probing may ultimately be good for your being able to develop more confidence in your own perceptions.
Otherwise, what I see in your chart is your chart ruler, the Moon, in Aquarius, apparently unaspected.
This could mean that it is difficult for you to get a real handle on how you react and feel - or in some cases, maybe not feel - in some situations, resulting in some sense of alienation. This could create some sense of being misunderstood by others, for being a bit weird, a bit detached, for example. That does not mean that you are necessarily asperger's at all though, and I wonder what Laing would have made of all the recent literature on the subject now. Camus, Sartre, Laing, Lennon, for example, all share your moon position too and they may have been perceived as manythings, but not necessarily asperger's types either.
Perhaps, with a Cancer ascendant, more intimacy might matter to you, but it may be difficult for you to know how to ask for this, and from whom. A Virgo Sunmay 'want' things to be clear and black andwhite, but a Mercury square Neptune may always muddy the waters a little bit there.