ILLUMINATUM
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Can you explain why you construe your personality and life as a series of problems? I'm sure there's a reasonable, factually based answer. Without knowing what you see as your problems, it's hard to locate an astrological explanation. I sometimes quip that we're astrologers, not mind-readers.
But honestly, in "my" choice centered astrology, each horoscope placement has the potential for empowering and disempowering interpretations. These will all be consistent with the core meanings of the planets, signs, houses, &c; but those core meanings give a lot of latitude within which we can pick and choose.
I don't view astrology in any rigorous fatalistic way.
Actually, the more I look at your chart, the more I see parallels with mine. I'm 68 years old and conclude that my life turned out OK, not withstanding the fact that every planet in my chart is involved in a square or an opposition.
I have moon opposite Venus, and haven't found it to be particularly troubling. I have sun, Mercury, Venus in Aquarius. You might find that square from Uranus to be difficult. It can express itself in one of two ways. (1) a lifelong identity quest. Just when you think you know who you are, Uranus upsets your apple cart. Events or people change quickly, leaving you to wonder if you really understood yourself so well. (2) a variant on this is the person who embodies Uranian disruption, challenges to authority, and rebellion.
But, my goodness! You've got those nice trines and sextiles all over the place. I'd be curious to learn how you manifest those.
The ruler of your 7th house, Jupiter, is kind of a wild child. It's retrograde and makes no major aspects to your other planets or angles. It is like a loner, who is thereby free to be unsocialized. In Leo, in your house of money and values, maybe this reinforces your Aquarian/Uranian mistrust of authority.
I think you are almost an inch closer to deciphering and completing the puzzle. With authority figures, they always impose on me, and I accuse myself sometimes with lack of humility. I believe that whatever life throws at us, it is our reactions to it that paves the path to our future. Problem is that I am just learning to get to know myself better. Before, I just react to my emotions. I do not even think how people would perceive me. That is why I believe learning astrology will help me get to know myself better.
My ideals and beliefs are my own, and can never be shaken. It help me define who I want to be. Problem with my ideals, is that I would not settle for less than my ideals. This is an annoying aspect about myself in regards to relationships and marriage.