Why do it seems like there's hidden motives with this person I'm talking to?

hbn_235

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I'm in a situation where I'm talking to this wonderful woman who I developed feelings for and we've been talking for going on 5 months now but something about her doesn't feel right for some reason I don't know. I see everyone around me and their situations in dating and their situations seems much happier and satisfied. But yet with this woman everything seems so slow, delayed and even having the feelings of it not going anywhere. she seems interested in me and she mention she's attracted to me and like me alot but the pace shes going it feels like shes not being honest even when I ask her to about us. It feels like shes keeping secrets, secretly trying to "Friendzone" me or take advantage of me until she do find someone she really wants. I've been hurt in the past before like that and learned alot but maybe someone can help me out as far as are there's any aspects or houses that shows this conflict or secrecy between us.

I am uploading both our natal charts and synastry.

My natal:

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