But, I have a question!
As a 12th House 2 degrees Capricorn Sun conjunct Jupiter in Sagittarius sitting on the Galactic Centre (so the ruler of the 12th is in the 12th and in acc dignity) which semi-sextile my Moon conjunct Venus in Aquarius in the 1st House, i judge things like this: why should the 12th House mean only bad things?
Everybody talks about how it is related to hospitals, slavery, karmic debts and ugly things, but i believe that this is happening because we use our subconsciousness as a garbage pit, partially because this is the way society teaches us on a more ovious note (by obvious, i mean the trends to which people choose to stick to, for example, the duck face on facebook, posting every meal you eat daily, and a picture of you in every bathroom of the city?)
Many people think that thoughts, restrained feelings and hunches can be shoved like sockets in your deepest "shelves" and ignored, until nothing fits in there anymore. It is a desire to distance oneself from his or her original state and become something better, which isn't bad, but in the process they forget they must move as a whole, with their souls and hearts and lessons learned not only with their looks and the superficial information stored in the brain. You may try to copy and look like your favourite movie actor as much as you wish, but unless the changes comes from within and according to your life circumstances, you will never be truly respected for what you are trying to become more than for what you can accomplish by listening to your instinct.
Instinct is a big part of me, it's like a small voice guiding you sometimes, and this thing saved my butt more times than any other thing, although i also happened to interprete it wrongly and mess up my situation, i won't deny it, but in the end, once i went through all the obstacles, i ended up with something better that if i would have done nothing.
I think that only learning to stop and ponder over your deepest thoughts you earn true freedom, and that the 12th house of "slavery" can bring the greatest form of expression and personal freedom once one works with him/herself. The same way a "fall" will always be more painfull when one is situated at great "heights" (reality check?).
It also 'happens' that the 12th House is related to the most "invisible" and abstract things that have to do with the humanity's unconsciousness, and because, again, many people use theirs as garbage pits, it is seen as an awfull thing when having to deal with them/it/yours. But, i think Neptune is like the Saturn of the abstract/feeling world: if you walk in the "sea" of emotions and learn to draw lines and create your path, you also learn to exploit the boundaries and experience freedom.
And talking about isolation... it is actually better if we choose it from time to time (and even so we will never be truly isolated) because it helps clear the mind, i say. It's all about the intention you have and send: if it's good, it'll work out, but if you continue to see it as a horrendous thing, it'll never do the magic trick for you.
Don't these sound a lot like the usual eastern teachings everybody heard about at one point? I believe each religion has an unique and good message to send, and they are like puzzle pieces that give a better view when put together.
Also, isn't the confusion suggested by this House coming from the fact that one doesn't know which one to put first, society norms, natural norms, the instinctual ones... and the fear of unknown? Or from the fact that there are so many things to learn when "accessing" it? It's a very rich house in my opinion. Like the precious stones that can be found deep inside a mountain, and the clearest rivers that exist only at great depths.
The same tendencies that we do on a small scale manifest on the bigger one: we abuse and dump things in the subconsciousness that we can't admit/gulp easily, the same way we dispose of trash and polluate nature and think that throwing them in the recycle bin won't harm anyone or anything. Now if we multiply these thoughts by a few milions because we aren't alone in this world, well, after a while, you realise the responsability of being the most numerous species on a Planet ^^
About the basic evil effects of the 12th House... they are a bit dramatised. Because those people thathave somethig important in the 12th have been given the tools: darkness, precious gems, but also a good sixth sense to guide them. Or "deep roots" maybe. And the possibility to transform original weaknesses into strenghts. Of course, not everybody was born in a pile of feathers and gold at their feet, or even a roof above them... or someone to take care of them... but we are social animals, where are we when someone else needs help? every individual that starts thinking about the other one too at one point, might save a life one day
I think i would have been pretty afraid or lost without a belief in something good, or a peaceful attitude... not that i don't have my moments, but i try to, oh, manage them
And company is very important for people with 12th House Sun, in the sense that love and understanding for them from other people/parents/family/friends is a precious key. Not that it isn't crucial for anybody, but for those more sensible to these kind of things, it overrides the need for being in the spotlight and artificial admiration.
Though, what i've seen is that recognision for something appears only late or not at the right moment, unless i "stick" what i've done into "someone's eye" in a way or another because that's the way people are taught to recognise things... which i don't really like, so, well, yeah, there are hard things about having the 2 most ego-driven planets in the most ego-less House.
I hope this doesn't sound shallow, there is so much more to be told... sometimes living with a heavy thing on your shoulders grants you immunity against the weird and bad things generated by people in this world. As simple as that. You just refract away certain negative vibes, or you subconsciously but powerfully oppose certain people, as even the most insensitive will get the tingle of "i shouldn't mess with this one". But I honestly have no idea about what is truly negative or not. Believing that the 12th is all about trouble would be like betraying myself. If you as an astrologer say that everything has a meaning and everyone has a place, then why is the 12th so unfortunate when it gives you such a beautiful place in the world, regardless of the ignorance existant around? I would choose any day to live in faster, more powerfull but clean and refreshing water rather than in calm but murky and polluted water.
What about "stars impel but do not compel"? Once again, aren't we the ones choosing a certain thing? Behaving one way that hurts someone deeply and then wondering why stuff happens to us? Maybe even running away from something, constantly, hoping it will disappear?
Why cannot we naturally heal ourselves faster or do not choose to evolve in such a direction so that we can aknowledge ourselves so well that we come to learn to intepret our body signals and influence them, something which only little people can do and people have done in times of crisis or very dangerous situations (stuff like ? Why do we destroy or neglect our natural means of healing over time? (ie: nature, sleeping habbits...) Why do we choose to follow the weaker rulers in mind and heart and not the strongest (the ones that resents bad things, orgies, scandals, because it's one of the easiest things to just let yourself fall) or the one that wants the good of the community, when everything else in nature has a ruler that thinks about the well-being of it's pack/family/herd as much as it's brain cells permit it?
Or maybe, are we actually balanced? Are we going up or down? Are we too complicated and think too much? Sometimes, when i put this question to myself there is no definite answer other than one: we could do as much as we want to ourselves, but when we actually threaten to destroy the Earth, this is a point where you know we'e going down, really, really fast. Is it really written in ourselves to destroy what we are given, instead of just letting stuff come as it should?
If such, doesn't the the self-undoing of the 12th House really reflect a bigger tendency on a wider scale?
And the funny part is that it takes almost nothing at all to actually embrace better values in life.
I think it's very funny and sad to see, how much importance and attention are gay rights given, for example, yet no one bats an eye at the fact that you environment is bombarded, and people and suffering from hunger world wide. Yeah, it's also funny when i wonder why so litle people see it, sense it, realise it. It's like watching puppets on strings that bump their heads in a wall for no reason at all.
This is something realy nice to read
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http://blog.medicinegarden.com/2011/05/the-12th-house-keys-to-the-kingdom/