Chrysalis
Well-known member
Ill try and keep this as short as i can, its going to help me to let it out though.
A much older guy than me who i thought was just lonely and needed a friend, he's my friends dads friend, and a bit of a loner, well he's all of a sudden this past few weeks, been wanting to come over to my house, and help me out (he's an aquarius rising and can fix more or less anything), he's been helping me out with lots of things, he's also randomly without me asking bought me a couple of things too.
I was cool with him, he was okay, i kind of got on with him, i thought he just enjoyed my company and prefered to come over to mine when he wasn't at work than be home alone or pub alone, so i thought i was doing him a favor too, giving him some company.
WELL TODAY THIS HAS ALL CHANGED !!!
Yesterday he left around 6pm, he'd been at mine all afternoon, doing things in the garden, when he was leaving he asked if i could help him at his house this morning with digging some weeds out of his garden, to which i said i would, as he's done so much for me, i didn't feel i could say No. He said he'd be at mine for 9am, but i changed it to 10.30 am as i said 9am was too early...anyway he came and we went to his house. He's into Trains, and has a big collection and he's built a big track in his Attic (ive seen it once before but was with my friend too), he told me to go up into the Attic to look at his new figures he's bought for the station track, so i did... to get to the attic stairs you have to walk through his bedroom.
We went up in the attic and he showed me the new figures, he then came back down the stairs and i followed...we are now in his bedroom, he now decided to show me ornaments on his bookshelf, i said their nice, la di da ...now im in front of him and ive walked passed his bed, i'm now at his bedroom doorway ready to walk down the stairs, but he's kinda hovering around his bed, he then just came out with "I don't mean now, but another time", i've looked back at him to see what he's going on about, and he's pointing to his bed, he carried it on with "id like you in that bed" OMG it was the way he said it and how it happened, he creeped me out BIGTIME, i ignored him in shock and walked down the stairs, and in my head im thinking ..you didn't just say that...you didn't just say that ....i then just said, "oh so thats what you got me upstairs for", he said something back, but i can't even recall what, as my head was not with it at this point.
Yes and now ive got to go and do his stupid weeds, my stomach was turning, i felt sick, he's old enough to be my dad....and it triggered a childhood trauma like this. I tried to act normal but he was making me cringe.
Btw it was how he said it more than anything, it was really creepy, he walks slow, creeps around, talks really low...so you can tell how it was said.
I quickly did the weeds, then told him i needed to go home, we went back to mine....he thankfully only stayed a couple of hrs before leaving, as i was purposely making myself busy as i didn't want to be in the same room as him, plus he must have picked up on the sudden shift in energy.
When he left i checked my chart for transits, but nothing really, so i checked his ...he's got venus 16*/neptune 13* conjunction in scorpio in his 8th house, so this approaching and now grand trine with venus/neptune/jupiter has triggered this obsession with me, off for him....if only i would have clicked on as to why he was wanting to do things for me all the time, and/or even noticed the approaching transit, then i could have avoided this.
He left early for a reason, he knows he's messed up, but for me this is unrepairable, ill never be the same person with him again.
So these nice looking trine transits, are not always so nice.
A much older guy than me who i thought was just lonely and needed a friend, he's my friends dads friend, and a bit of a loner, well he's all of a sudden this past few weeks, been wanting to come over to my house, and help me out (he's an aquarius rising and can fix more or less anything), he's been helping me out with lots of things, he's also randomly without me asking bought me a couple of things too.
I was cool with him, he was okay, i kind of got on with him, i thought he just enjoyed my company and prefered to come over to mine when he wasn't at work than be home alone or pub alone, so i thought i was doing him a favor too, giving him some company.
WELL TODAY THIS HAS ALL CHANGED !!!
Yesterday he left around 6pm, he'd been at mine all afternoon, doing things in the garden, when he was leaving he asked if i could help him at his house this morning with digging some weeds out of his garden, to which i said i would, as he's done so much for me, i didn't feel i could say No. He said he'd be at mine for 9am, but i changed it to 10.30 am as i said 9am was too early...anyway he came and we went to his house. He's into Trains, and has a big collection and he's built a big track in his Attic (ive seen it once before but was with my friend too), he told me to go up into the Attic to look at his new figures he's bought for the station track, so i did... to get to the attic stairs you have to walk through his bedroom.
We went up in the attic and he showed me the new figures, he then came back down the stairs and i followed...we are now in his bedroom, he now decided to show me ornaments on his bookshelf, i said their nice, la di da ...now im in front of him and ive walked passed his bed, i'm now at his bedroom doorway ready to walk down the stairs, but he's kinda hovering around his bed, he then just came out with "I don't mean now, but another time", i've looked back at him to see what he's going on about, and he's pointing to his bed, he carried it on with "id like you in that bed" OMG it was the way he said it and how it happened, he creeped me out BIGTIME, i ignored him in shock and walked down the stairs, and in my head im thinking ..you didn't just say that...you didn't just say that ....i then just said, "oh so thats what you got me upstairs for", he said something back, but i can't even recall what, as my head was not with it at this point.
Yes and now ive got to go and do his stupid weeds, my stomach was turning, i felt sick, he's old enough to be my dad....and it triggered a childhood trauma like this. I tried to act normal but he was making me cringe.
Btw it was how he said it more than anything, it was really creepy, he walks slow, creeps around, talks really low...so you can tell how it was said.
I quickly did the weeds, then told him i needed to go home, we went back to mine....he thankfully only stayed a couple of hrs before leaving, as i was purposely making myself busy as i didn't want to be in the same room as him, plus he must have picked up on the sudden shift in energy.
When he left i checked my chart for transits, but nothing really, so i checked his ...he's got venus 16*/neptune 13* conjunction in scorpio in his 8th house, so this approaching and now grand trine with venus/neptune/jupiter has triggered this obsession with me, off for him....if only i would have clicked on as to why he was wanting to do things for me all the time, and/or even noticed the approaching transit, then i could have avoided this.
He left early for a reason, he knows he's messed up, but for me this is unrepairable, ill never be the same person with him again.
So these nice looking trine transits, are not always so nice.