Sorry for making another thread so soon but I would like to ask for help since I'm struggling emotionally right now. I will turn 28 years old and the thing is I have never been in a loving relationship.
Although this week I had a date with a very nice, kind guy. We had been talking for hours and I thought we had fun, however, yesterday he told me I seemed to be emotionally cold and he felt like I was keeping my distance all along. Actually, my problem is not that I was into him and he broke my heart - because I knew he was not "the him" for me. What makes me sad is that he's not the first guy who told me these things. To tell you the truth, sometimes I really feel like an old lady and think I will never be in love. People around me seem so happy. Every time someone asks me If I have a boyfriend I feel so embarrassed and don't know what to say since my answer is always the same.
My questions are: Is it in my chart? Am I not capable of love and a relationship? I really want to experience these things, though...
Any help would be greatly appreciated.
Although this week I had a date with a very nice, kind guy. We had been talking for hours and I thought we had fun, however, yesterday he told me I seemed to be emotionally cold and he felt like I was keeping my distance all along. Actually, my problem is not that I was into him and he broke my heart - because I knew he was not "the him" for me. What makes me sad is that he's not the first guy who told me these things. To tell you the truth, sometimes I really feel like an old lady and think I will never be in love. People around me seem so happy. Every time someone asks me If I have a boyfriend I feel so embarrassed and don't know what to say since my answer is always the same.
My questions are: Is it in my chart? Am I not capable of love and a relationship? I really want to experience these things, though...
Any help would be greatly appreciated.
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