Sadly I do not have the birth time to see the house placement of the one I know with Saturn south node conjunction. Well we both are really strange, I am so baffled... often, just by how much we mirror each other... I'm not sure if he see it the same way.
We both have also sun opposite pluto double whammy. His Mars is also in taurus, both our venus in aries, but my Mars is in gemini opposite my Saturn, conjunct his gemini moon. His moon is opposite his Saturn too just that it is in different signs, Saturn in late scorpio, moon in early gemini. I find our synastry exhausting, I'd like to have more space, but he get's very hurt and I noticed he never let go of anything. He is a super loner, he told me he even lived on the streets for a while, he is shy, still after months of being together he fears to be hurt. But the thing about using other resources is true, without any shame and I've noticed this a lot with South node scorpio ppl, either emotional or financially. Or both. My brother my cousin, some friends, I see the same patterns in these ppl. Other's emotions make them high. It's a dominant trait.
And I haven't seen Saturn supporting the south node, rather difficult as in making it more okay to be like that cause Saturn is superior. Nobody said being teached(Saturn) means only positive. Or let's say a friend of mine who has 8 scorpio placements plus South node in scorpio Saturn scorpio. He learned
Psychology,but he can't fool me cause I am the one who has "the" diagnosis since I was 17. And I often tell him to stop searching and start helping out,he simply can not stop analyzing, and now he works a decent job.
I asked him what is the reason you learned this. To act superior,to be in control, I find it out late but after sharing only miserable self destructive stories and still not building his own business and basically living on other emotions to a point it is unhealthy.
He believes in Buddha, question it and you are his enemy, living on other ppls resources made him proud, not buying anything but letting others buy him things, it's his ideology, But... I came by to check on him, asked if I could help clean up that big time mess. Spider weapons everywhere, old food etc... I saw a lot but what I saw was a man who needed a wake up slap. I don't know where he went wrong but he could do a lot better but he just self sabotages and never ask for constructive help. And so so so shy and humble it hurts me, I know they might not even realize this, me with my libra south node I have to be aware not being the **** doormat and thinking to please everyone The emotions are strong with South node scorpio, for me being a taurus sun and mercury having it conjunct their north node mostly, I finally understand why these people never wanna get me and love to argue with me. Scorpio South node is truly shy, kinda wicked. But I believe the south node is something you just have to live through to get to the other side no matter how long it takes
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