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Unread 06-13-2017, 03:17 PM
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8th house person here! Are guys intimated by me?

Hello to all!

Again, another person with dating troubles!

Im 38 years old (female), born: 30 January 1979, 14:22 in Hamburg (Germany)

As far as i know im a "Cancer Rising" but in Vedic "Gemini Rising", no clue which one is correct..

Can you please take a look at my chart, and tell me why im still single?!
Are there indicators of marriage, children?
I cannot believe im almost 40 and nothing happens!!

Is it due to my 8th house stellium (Sun/Mars/Mercury) ? Is this intimidating?
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Unread 06-13-2017, 03:41 PM
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Re: 8th house person here! Are guys intimated by me?

Your 7th house cusp or Descendant falls into Capricorn. Typically Capricorn here results in marriage later on or to an older partner.

Consider posting your chart from astro.com. They are much easier to read and include more information.

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Unread 06-13-2017, 03:56 PM
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Re: 8th house person here! Are guys intimated by me?

Ahh, so sorry!

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Re: 8th house person here! Are guys intimated by me?

Since you are an 8th house person, you want an deep intimate connection with your partners. It could be a lot of the guys that you are running into are not plutonic/scorpionic and runs away from such a potential to develop such a deep, beautiful, transformational connection. Cappy 7th house- needs a solid, secure relationship before even taking the next step, therefore ensuring you're or your partner is finanancially stable and secure all around before even saying "I do". Also indicative of settling down later in life or with someone older. 7th house ruler in 4th - Since its Saturn, emotional and domestic security and stability is must!
Moon and Venus - Moon in 10th - your emotional comfort comes from your career or life path, Venus in the 6th - You love your work and your day to day routine. Since there's a Moon in Pisces - Saturn in Virgo opposition - both in the signs of sacrifice and service, you're constantly trying to sacrifice it all for finding emotional fulfillment through your career or either trying to sacrifice it all for emotional security in your domestic life. Thus leading to a sense of unfullfiment.
Therefore you are pretty Saturn oriented (Aquarius stellium, 10th house Moon, Cap 7th house, Saturn in 4th) when it comes to dealing with others, fixed in your approach (Again Aqua stellium in 8th) therefore demanding security and stability in an effort to change, transform and rebuild, in an intellectual matter.
BTW, I have a affinity for 8th house folks, since I'm pretty Plutonian my own **** self!

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Re: 8th house person here! Are guys intimated by me?

How was your relationship with your parents? How was their relationship with each other? Also, how trusting are you of others, especially a significant other? Your Moon is in opposition to Saturn.
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Re: 8th house person here! Are guys intimated by me?

You like 8th house people, are you not scared of them? Then we would make a great match Hermesshadesluna just kidding!
@ still one the relationship between my parents was and is still sh**t, just horrible, i will never want to marry a man like that. My father is really gready, never shows affections..of course it affected my childhood, since im also very detached (maybe due to Aquarius in Sun/Mars/Mercury), i must say im pretty cold. I dont give kisses or hugs easily without really meaning it.
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Re: 8th house person here! Are guys intimated by me?

1st/7th rulers in a very tight opposition. Saturn and moon.. Plus all those aqua placements opposing jupiter. They see you as independent and hard to read or unavailable.
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Re: 8th house person here! Are guys intimated by me?

Saturn and moon are t-squaring neptune/venus and moon is receiving this square being in pisces. Try art or meditation to get a better understanding of your emotions.
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Re: 8th house person here! Are guys intimated by me?

I'm an 8th house woman...men don't seem intimidated. Most of the men I've been involved with have placements that work well with mine, e.g. Venus or Moon in the same sign or element as my Sun/Venus or ASC. I agree with the others on reasons why you may still be single.
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Re: 8th house person here! Are guys intimated by me?

So, no good news??
i knew that Saturn opposite Moon is a very bad one to have, but is Sun/Mars/Mercury opposite Jupiter also bad ? Are all oppositions bad?

Just because Leo is in Jupiter that means automatically opposition?
And i thought that Jupiter Leo is a good sign to have there
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Re: 8th house person here! Are guys intimated by me?

Well there is always the potential to find love regardless of how "doomed" your chart might look, its just a matter of trying new things and finding something that works for you.

The saturn-moon opp is right along your mc/ic axis, so your destiny might be more centered around career/ lifepath.

A jupiter opposition isnt that bad imo. Jupiter expands what it comes in contact with and is also about exploration/ give and take. Jupiter is most closely opposing mercury but also in orb of opposing mars and sun. Might want to look up jupiter-merc oppositions and see how it might play out in your life.

There are always outs. Its why i mentioned the art thing. Venus rules your fifth house and it is also-tsquaring the saturn-moon opp with saturn ruling the seventh house. Maybe you will meet someone if you pursue what artistic hobbies that might interest you.
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Re: 8th house person here! Are guys intimated by me?

Thanks a lot Venus for your super fast reply!!
I was quite sure that my Venus & Neptune are both in sixth house... both in Sagittarius and in 6 house

But, 5 or 6 house...would that change anything? Guess no..bad destiny remains i dont have a any change to see myself getting older and older but always "alone" it *****
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Re: 8th house person here! Are guys intimated by me?

It rules your fifth house because libra is on the cusp. Fifth house rules romance, creativity, play, sports and kids.
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Re: 8th house person here! Are guys intimated by me?

And i understand how you feel, im the loner type. But dont underestimate the power of positive thinking and positive action
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Re: 8th house person here! Are guys intimated by me?

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Hello to all!

Again, another person with dating troubles!

Im 38 years old (female), born: 30 January 1979, 14:22 in Hamburg (Germany)

As far as i know im a "Cancer Rising" but in Vedic "Gemini Rising", no clue which one is correct..

Can you please take a look at my chart, and tell me why im still single?!
Are there indicators of marriage, children?
I cannot believe im almost 40 and nothing happens!!

Is it due to my 8th house stellium (Sun/Mars/Mercury) ? Is this intimidating?

Yes, it is in part due to that, it is hyper independent, very forcefully Aquarian, mental - Air signs can conspire against being tied, and Mars/Sun on that military degree (I have the same Sun) demands a lot.


The Sun Jupiter opposition is a powerful asset. Not all oppositions are bad, there are hardly any significant artists, for example, that dont have oppositions - or philosophers. But, to name something completely different, Miranda Kerr also has a powerful one with Pluto and Saturn.
https://www.astrotheme.com/astrology/Miranda_Kerr
So no, they dont mark bad luck, just a lot of tension, or will.

Mars opposed Jupiter is also benefic, certainly in Leo/Aquarius.

People with a powerful will are most likely to find mates under circumstances where their power is being employed. You clearly need an intense partner, or maybe more, maybe you need to still discover a sexual dominance - these are strange times, everything goes, so many people cant even read themselves.

Moon opposed Saturn:
Jack Nicholson
Roger Moore
Napoleon
Bruce Lee
Robert Redford
Lauren Bacall

It's a strong willed chart, so you'll have to rely on that, hell, maybe you can just straight out command men to be with you.
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Re: 8th house person here! Are guys intimated by me?

Perhaps the best way to pick between a Cancer and Gemini Ascendant is to work out how shy you are in approaching new situations in life, whether they be social or work related or something else.

Cancer Ascendant produces skittishness in people from what I have observed whilst Gemini is much more gregarious. Cancer Ascendant often prefers to retreat back under their rock when faced with unfamiliarity or confrontation and only likes to act when they are onto a sure thing. A Gemini Ascendant on the other hand is much more inquisitive of their environment and wants to know everything about everyone around them. There is also a marked chattiness to people with significant Gemini influence.

On a more mundane level your self described problems with finding a partner may also have roots in nature itself. Few people realise that the dating game for men and women is vastly different and it's a game that turns on it's head at different ages. Women have a huge advantage (in dating) earlier on in life whilst this advantage then transfers to men as the men get older. The result being that women often find it harder to attract partners in their later years whilst men begin to find it easier as they get older. The age around when this transfer begins to happen is 30. This also tends to coincide with the 1st Saturn Return and this is in my opinion more of a benefit to men than it is to women as Saturn is an extremely masculine planet. 30 is when men really start to come into their own and reach the limits of their power and potential (if they've been living their lives correctly) but with women the effect is less beneficial or muted I think.

8th House influences can certainly give someone a bit of an edge to their perception of other people but by itself it wouldn't intimidate potential partners unless you were using your 8th House influences to find chinks in other peoples armour that left them feeling vulnerable.

Also as others have mentioned a Capricorn Descendant would tend to attract partners who are older or in authority of some kind.

I haven't had a chance to check out your chart fully however so more than this I cannot say sorry!

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Re: 8th house person here! Are guys intimated by me?

Dear Friend

Taking Gemini Ascendant,its lord is Mercury and this has gone to 8th from its own house.Jupitor is in libra in navamasa divisional.This could be one of the major factor for delay or multi marriages in your life.Your Sun to Venus distance is more than 46 degree.THis hsows your inclination for opposite sex.There could be more than two relationships in your life.In your country and prevailing society,this might be a normal thing but it is a fact as per vedic and ashtakvarga system.What was happening between April 2012-March 2015?

You are confident of yourself and stubborn.You always try to control things in your own way and hard for you to let it go so easily.But you are brilliant and have faith in God as well.

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Your Sun to Venus distance is more than 46 degree.THis hsows your inclination for opposite sex.There could be more than two relationships in your life

Hello Anup
I have never read an interpretation of a maximally elongated Venus before.
Could you say something more about this?

(My Venus is at 27 Pisces, my Sun at 10 Aquarius.)

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Re: 8th house person here! Are guys intimated by me?

Dear Blacksun


It will be not fair to simply say something without casting your chart.
Considering the placement of Venus and distance from Aquarius Sun,
You are in right field of art and you have a promised rise in career.
Venus is not spoilt due to proximity of Sun.The distance between sun and venus is almost 47 degree.So you are not exception to avoid attraction for opposite sex and charming company.

Ancient indian vedic astrology and krushna ashtakvarga can only give clues to all such queries.

So,share your birth detail for detailed analysis.

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Dear Blacksun


It will be not fair to simply say something without casting your chart.
Considering the placement of Venus and distance from Aquarius Sun,
You are in right field of art and you have a promised rise in career.
Venus is not spoilt due to proximity of Sun.The distance between sun and venus is almost 47 degree.So you are not exception to avoid attraction for opposite sex and charming company.

Ancient indian vedic astrology and krushna ashtakvarga can only give clues to all such queries.

So,share your birth detail for detailed analysis.

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I would love to learn more.
Dobyou mean I shun potential lovers?
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Re: 8th house person here! Are guys intimated by me?

What was happening between April 2012-March 2015?


Hi,

during that time nothing happened in terms of relationship and dating.
The "most" sucessfull years for me was in 2001 and 2002..then year after year nothing happened.

I always had most luck in jobs/career but love?? Nothing..
There was a time, i guess in 2004 which was a total desaster for me (emotionally), because my father had liver cancer, and i got depressed and shut myself down from the outside world. Nothing was important to me anymore
For me 2004 to 2007 was a disaster for me, horrible

Sorry for my "bad" english, i was born in Germany, but im Portuguese.
So my english writing is so so..

One question: So the distant to my Venus / Sun is good for relationships?
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Venus is not spoilt due to proximity of Sun.The distance between sun and venus is almost 47 degree.So you are not exception to avoid attraction for opposite sex and charming company.
edited: Do you mean I do tend to avoid attraction?

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Re: 8th house person here! Are guys intimated by me?

Alex....

Focus on letting go of having tight control over how you interface with the world. Moon opposition Saturn is not a horribly bad, doomed forever kind of aspect. It denotes a seriousness and somber attitude, and many profound thinkers have such aspects (along with unstable people too). It can go either way. But it's significant in this case because they are the rulers of your relationship axis, and on top of that, they lay right across your IC/MC axis. Moreover, the Saturn in 4th deserves a lot of attention. Make sure you understand this on a deep level. In matters of intimate relationships, this placement is somewhat of a handicap because it makes you so fearful of truly letting someone in to the core of your being.....the 4th is the deepest part of your soul and also represents your family roots and father. This is a significant area of your life that needs healing.

Your chart, as most charts, shows a repeating theme that keeps pointing back to the need for you to heal your family roots and build an inner sense of confidence. This is reinforced by several different aspects and patterns. Whatever you experienced in your childhood (and I don't know what it was exactly) I know it was perceived as cold by you and you did not get your needs met, either emotionally or practically. This sense of deep, inner insecurity will always be there until you address it directly. And it is directly tied to your ability to be open and vulnerable with others, a fundamental component to forming intimate relationships.

It's easier for you to focus on career and outward success. That makes you feel safer than investing in family, intimate relationships, or your own inner health. Let go of that. You could conquer the career thing, no problem. Your challenge is to turn inward. That's a priority in your chart to balance these energies. You need to make an effort to reach in the opposite direction by focusing on healing and building your inner sense of security, the kind of stuff that money or career success cannot buy. This is an essential building block to not just forming meaningful relationships, but really for everything else in your life. And it needs your attention.

I should also add that your chart shows you can/will achieve this in time. So go at it.

Hope I helped.

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Re: 8th house person here! Are guys intimated by me?

A BIG thanks to all of you, for sharing your points of view on this . i really appreciate it that you all have take some time to share your opinions and ideas.
Many thanks again !!
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A BIG thanks to all of you, for sharing your points of view on this . i really appreciate it that you all have take some time to share your opinions and ideas.
Many thanks again !!
Phoenix Venus made me aware of the Sabian symbols. Since your Sun is on the same degree as mine, in the eleventh degree of Aquarius (counting from zero, which is the cusp):

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THIRD LEVEL: INDIVIDUAL/MENTAL

PHASE 311 (AQUARIUS 11): DURING A SILENT HOUR, A MAN RECEIVES A NEW INSPIRATION WHICH MAY CHANGE HIS LIFE.

KEYNOTE: The need to rely upon inner inspiration and guidance at the start of new developments.

What is implied here is the essential value of keeping open to the descent of spiritual or Soul forces, especially when a new period of individual activity is about to begin. The individual should not depend mainly on outer circumstances and on traditional — and in a sense external, because collectively formulated — incentives. There is a creative power within, a power that can be tapped, or rather that should be allowed to flow into the brain-consciousness or the hands which write or fashion materials into original forms.

This is the first stage in the sixty-third sequence of five phases of activity. It refers to the OVERSHADOWING of the individual consciousness by an inner, yet transcendent, Power.
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