Too Much Neptune in Synastry ?

Is there too much Neptune in our Synastry ?
Are we Deceiving each other ?

Synastry (Blue me and Orange Female)

So the question is, how much is too much?
What is the quality of the contacts?
Venus/neptune is very idealistic, poetic, romantic.
Mars/neptune is illusive, saps your energy.
Neptune/ascendent makes it difficult to see the other person, there is a cloudy film between you. It's the maximum of fascination, spirituality, compassion, but you can't really see the other for who they are.

ElenaJ said:

you can't really see the other for who they are.

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Yes I can't see other wholly.
But I need to see enough which require for a good stable relationship.
Am I asking for too much ?
Deceiving each other will not give anything but pain and Misery both.

It's not that you or she are deceiving consciously, on purpose, it is just part of the way you interact.