emotionality
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My boyfriend hates his job.He feels he does not get paid enough even though his job is relatively simple.He claims that if he was paid more he wouldn't be so unhappy.He is very bored and looking for a new job,mostly money motivated.He makes the bills and can get by but he wants.Wants more..of everything.He has a penchant for purchasing.He works with self check out machines,builds them.Ten hours a day four days a week he stands there working with wires and comes home very unhappy.He has been working there for 3 years.He has no higher education other than highschool.This is what he says he wants to do:
1. musician
2. 3-d artist
3. artist in general
He also says that perhaps even if he had those things he would be unhappy with them after a while.
He is aware of my interest in astrology and asked me to guide him.I in turn ask you to guide me.I am a novice and I may not see the things the more experienced of you may.I may misinterpret things, please feel free to correct me because the last thing I want to do is misinform him.
He has his sun in Gemini in the tenth house which is ruled by Taurus.The sun conjunct mars tightly,fusing his ego drive with his aggressive nature.
This is the only major aspect the sun makes.
I'm gonna try on an astro sentence to put it in the right context.
His self-expression & ego, is combined with his being,drive forward and aggression making him very aggressive innately.This manifests in a very sarcastic manner over all. Focused in the area of life concerning career, authority, structure and restriction which he is highly ambivalent towards.
In his own words, he feels (consciously) that he shouldn't have to respect authority because at times they do not follow their own rules.
I feel that there is great potential in this placement never the less.
Onward , he has his Midheaven in Taurus conjunct his Taurean Mercury and Moon.I would think that would give him a sharp mind that may come across as stubborn (with his gem sun/mars )but would would enable him to effectively use his mental faculties to get ahead as well as his emotional drive.Since none of these things have really come to fruition in the career department, I look to see the ruler of the mc which is Venus,which is hiding in the twelfth house,squaring his Saturn.I feel that his Venus sitting in the subconscious of a non introspective mind sqaureing his Saturn , is almost unfelt or is creating conflict between the two energies to the extent of him suppressing it.
Furthermore his Jupiter in Sagittarius and Leo asc exacerbates his dogmatic ( though he is an atheist )approach to life and his ideas of what is right (for him) ,his distastes for authority and any kind of restriction -- conjuncting his Uranus both in the Fourth house ,resulting in an even more freedom loving and progressive outlook on things.
His south node is also in sag conjunting his Neptune in the 5th house , possibly giving him the illusion that the Sagittarius mode of being is the way he is , because he is comfortable there.
With all of this there is really only one option and that's to freelance but he would have to develop his artistic skills and even then he would have to bow down to someone elses ideas and I don't see how he can accomplish that currently.I really don't know where someone can be accepted and making more than $11 an hour and have a complete disregard for the higher ups and an unwillingness or inability to contain ones self without bottling things up( which he does try to control himself to a point even though it is very hard for him to do so and I personally am very proud of him ).
I picked out what I thought would be career oriented and since he's having such a hard time,the kinds of energy that have or will impede his success,materially,in the future.
Take into account geographical issues ( small town ) and job market as well.
Are the lack of aspects to some of his personal planets holding him back? I also wonder if his retrograde planets hold him back at all either.
So in the end...I ask ... how do I help him ? Can I without telling him he has to change?I love this man,I want him to succeed for himself because his title is not important to me ^^
And here's the chart !
My boyfriend hates his job.He feels he does not get paid enough even though his job is relatively simple.He claims that if he was paid more he wouldn't be so unhappy.He is very bored and looking for a new job,mostly money motivated.He makes the bills and can get by but he wants.Wants more..of everything.He has a penchant for purchasing.He works with self check out machines,builds them.Ten hours a day four days a week he stands there working with wires and comes home very unhappy.He has been working there for 3 years.He has no higher education other than highschool.This is what he says he wants to do:
1. musician
2. 3-d artist
3. artist in general
He also says that perhaps even if he had those things he would be unhappy with them after a while.
He is aware of my interest in astrology and asked me to guide him.I in turn ask you to guide me.I am a novice and I may not see the things the more experienced of you may.I may misinterpret things, please feel free to correct me because the last thing I want to do is misinform him.
He has his sun in Gemini in the tenth house which is ruled by Taurus.The sun conjunct mars tightly,fusing his ego drive with his aggressive nature.
This is the only major aspect the sun makes.
I'm gonna try on an astro sentence to put it in the right context.
His self-expression & ego, is combined with his being,drive forward and aggression making him very aggressive innately.This manifests in a very sarcastic manner over all. Focused in the area of life concerning career, authority, structure and restriction which he is highly ambivalent towards.
In his own words, he feels (consciously) that he shouldn't have to respect authority because at times they do not follow their own rules.
I feel that there is great potential in this placement never the less.
Onward , he has his Midheaven in Taurus conjunct his Taurean Mercury and Moon.I would think that would give him a sharp mind that may come across as stubborn (with his gem sun/mars )but would would enable him to effectively use his mental faculties to get ahead as well as his emotional drive.Since none of these things have really come to fruition in the career department, I look to see the ruler of the mc which is Venus,which is hiding in the twelfth house,squaring his Saturn.I feel that his Venus sitting in the subconscious of a non introspective mind sqaureing his Saturn , is almost unfelt or is creating conflict between the two energies to the extent of him suppressing it.
Furthermore his Jupiter in Sagittarius and Leo asc exacerbates his dogmatic ( though he is an atheist )approach to life and his ideas of what is right (for him) ,his distastes for authority and any kind of restriction -- conjuncting his Uranus both in the Fourth house ,resulting in an even more freedom loving and progressive outlook on things.
His south node is also in sag conjunting his Neptune in the 5th house , possibly giving him the illusion that the Sagittarius mode of being is the way he is , because he is comfortable there.
With all of this there is really only one option and that's to freelance but he would have to develop his artistic skills and even then he would have to bow down to someone elses ideas and I don't see how he can accomplish that currently.I really don't know where someone can be accepted and making more than $11 an hour and have a complete disregard for the higher ups and an unwillingness or inability to contain ones self without bottling things up( which he does try to control himself to a point even though it is very hard for him to do so and I personally am very proud of him ).
I picked out what I thought would be career oriented and since he's having such a hard time,the kinds of energy that have or will impede his success,materially,in the future.
Take into account geographical issues ( small town ) and job market as well.
Are the lack of aspects to some of his personal planets holding him back? I also wonder if his retrograde planets hold him back at all either.
So in the end...I ask ... how do I help him ? Can I without telling him he has to change?I love this man,I want him to succeed for himself because his title is not important to me ^^
And here's the chart !
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When mars takes over in September what kind of energy will that give him,compared to now?He does feel discouraged and he does want some mark of recognition and attention from the "outer world" in one way or another