This chart is hard for me to read because I don’t think the question is quite right, but here’s my interpretation, I’m not feeling real confident with it, but maybe it will give you something else to think about. You are mars in Capricorn in H10 (it bumps up because it is so close to the cusp) and the moon is in cancer in H3. They are in opposition, mars *assertive action, anger* and the need to communicate how you feel... H3 moon and cancer...*protect emotions* so you defiantly have your guard up. There is caution here on dwelling on past relationships, it will prevent you from moving forward, the more you dwell the more closed off emotionally you’ll get. Capricorn is patient and reserved, pessimistic and apprehensive, you’ll hold off on complete emotional commitment until you are sure she’s out of the picture. Especially because you are in a position of having to deal with their past, (and yours) and after all it is a new relationship so there is that sense of caution anyway. He is Venus in H12 in Pisces, bumping up again. Venus is *helpful and beneficial and kind*. H12 is *secrets, and secret enemies, disappointments, limitations*. Pisces is *sensitive, compassionate and sympathetic* yet at the same time they can be *secretive and vague, and easily influenced*. So he may be genuinely concerned about her emotional state and yours too for that matter. There is no aspect between mars and Venus, I’m not quite sure what to make of that, and that’s why I “question” the “question”. Couples break up for many different reasons, with you guys having no aspect to each other leads me to believe that maybe you won’t stay together (I hate saying that, and I could be wrong) but it may have nothing to do with her. I’m not quite sure what to classify her as. As a friend of his, (11th turned from the 12th ), that puts her as Saturn in the 5th, seems to fit because she is not accepting the fact that he is dating someone new and is really pissed. The sun is in the 11th house conj. Neptune and mercury; she is trying to communicate with him through others, and not seeing the situation for what it is. I don’t think she believes him when he says it’s over. There is also no aspect between Venus and Saturn either. I think it’s pretty safe to say he’s done with her, but he may not want to be hurtful to her either and may be trying to be as gentle as possible although he may give you the impression that he is being aggressive about it, after all he would know how to best deal with her. You’ll have to take this with a grain of salt, like I said I am not really feeling it, but I am posting anyway. Good Luck! I hope she goes away.