Sagicap,
I believe he is in 7H Taurus, ruled by Venus and he's Sun in Libra, ruled by Venus as well
Yes he is Venus. You must just forget about Venus being a female planet and representing a male. It is all about where Venus is placed etc. Saturn for instance very often signifies the wife being cheated on, so there you go
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The Sun we look at only when we are looking for a second man in a horary chart, but for the rest
Sun represents his sexual animal side.
You are Mars (traditional rulers are used ONLY, modern one's are looked at in a different way. Pluto,
only when placed prominently like conjunct an angle, shows a sudden emotional upset or deep transformation.
You are also co-signified by the Moon, that's correct.
When you want to look at how you feel, then look at the Moon's placement (Moon=feelings). Moon here is in Aries, not at all good and in the 6th house, another bad sign. Moon is also Void of Course (always look at the Moon when you start interpreting a chart. When he is VOC it can either mean: dont worry, nothing will happen (depending on the question of course) or it means: Nothing will come of the question. So if your question would have been: will something awful happen to my pussycat? then a VOC Moon means: dont worry, nothing will happen.
In your case I have to look a bit further because I dont know how desperate you are, but I can get an idea when I look at that Moon's position.
Moon is Peregrine in Aries which means that you cant act at all and probably feel helpless.
Now it gets more difficult. You asked how he will respond. So we have to look at his 3rd house (3rd of the 7th) and that house is also ruled by the Moon. You now must not anymore see Moon as your co-ruler but as ruler of his 3rd only. And you see that the Moon, like I already mentioned, is at the end of it's rope, cannot act, does not
know what to say in other words.
Ruler of the Moon is Mars and that Mars again in his 3rd house, so Mars does play a role here. Mars will sextile Saturn, so there is a chance (sextile shows a chance, an opportunity sometimes) that he will either not answer at all (Saturn shows a stop to things or a problem) or that his answer will not be very positive. After all, Saturn is the great malific in horary. Mars is in term of Venus, the ruler of the 7th house so if he answers you, he will probably think of himself foremost and another possibility is that the answer has to do with the relationship (Venus rules the relationship).
Mars in his 3rd house can also show a weak sort of answer because Mars is in fall in Cancer, even though he rules the night and day triplicity.
The 4th house of the relationhips shows that Sun in Libra, a very weak Sun because Sun is in fall in Libra (also showing that he maybe is not a macho man). Sun is still in a fortunate house, the 11th but very close to the 12th where he will weaken even more. I have a feeling that this relationship could be in trouble? His 5th house of romance is ruled by Mercury and Mercury just left Venus. This could mean that his romantic feelings for you are leaving him (Merc. leaves conjunction with Venus (him) and heads for Saturn, showing the end of his feelings.)
When I look at your 5th house of romance, I see that it is ruled by Jupiter who is going retrograde, showing a diminishing romantic situation.
Then we also see that Venus is going to oppose Uranus in your 5th house which could show some sort of separation, temporarily or definite.
End of the matter for you is Saturn who is also VOC. and in term of Mars. (the end of the matter is depending on his answer to you).Mars is the ruler of divorce, separation in horary so I dont know if this shows that there will be a separation in the end or not.
Now you thought that Venus and Mars sextiling would be positive answer to this question. It shows a contact between the two of you , sure, but not such a strong one. Mars is weak in Cancer and Venus is in term of Saturn, her enemy.
I think that we have to look at something else.
Your question to him, which is Saturn (your 3rd house ruler) and his answer to you (Moon) his 3rd house ruler. there is no connection there, but if we take Mars as the co-significator of his 3rd house and his answer (Moon), then we see that Mars will sextile Saturn, so there is a chance that he will answer you but the answer could be unsatisfactory, due to the fact that both rulers are in a weak position.
It would be easier if we would know what your question was, but I understand that you want to keep that for yourself.
Whatever the answer, I do see that the end of the relationship is very weak and I am afraid that it won't last very long. I hope I am mistaken.