Wilmingtonian said:
I have a significant lack of Air signs, though..Only Pluto..I would think that having my Sun in Virgo in the 11th would make me very friendly, but not so much. I'm quite antisocial.
Hi Tim,
Firstly, lack of Air signs in a chart makes a chart heavier in comparison, as air lends a certain amount of frivolity, outgoingness, diplomacy, makes you more communicative and social, and in general makes the native a more take-it-easy and light-hearted person. Earth and Water make you more self-contained and self-sufficient. Pluto is a generation planet, and its being alone (ignoring the nNode in your case for now) in Libra (Air-Sign) in your chart would not make you as an individual more friendly. Pluto expects the Pluto-Libra generation, however, to learn and exercise tact and diplomacy (by not going to extremes) in one-to-one relationships and partnerships (Libran issues).
Btw, if your n-Node is in next to Pluto in Libra, then moderation and tact in your dealing with others is certainly your main task in life.
Secondly, being an extrovert and being 'friendly' are not the same thing.
I have to say that I don't get the impression at all that you are anti-social. Sun in Virgo tends to make one a bit (too) sober in one's dealing with others. Even in friendships and socialising, Virgos can't overcome their calculating and analysing in-born nature, and invariably ask themselves:
what is 'this' good for?
I have an Aquarian Sun in H6 (6=Virgo), and despite my Aquarian Sun & Leo Asc, I am not truly an extrovert, and I know what to pin this down to - partially my Sun + Merc in H6, and my Moon (though in 5) in Cap. Coming to the 'friendly' bit, you say you have your Virgo-Sun in H11. Technically planets in H11 (any) would make matters of H11 (independence, friends & socialising..) have importance in the native's life. Having said this, one must surely consider which sign H11 falls into, and which sign(s) the planets of H11 reside in. I am not even considering the aspects these planets have in the chart. H11 in air and fire would make you socially more active and keen than a H11 in earth (few but durable friendships) and water (nurturing friendships).
Taking your example, a
Virgo Sun will make you very sober (even shy, and somewhat critically analytical) when it comes to friends and societal issues. However, the very placement of Sun in H11 makes friends, societal and humanitarian issues the (or at least one of the) central theme(s) in your life. This does not mean that you will give or do just about any thing to make friends (in no.s). It's just that these issues (of H11) will hold importance, perhaps be your karma in this life - that what you are expected to achieve.
As I said earlier, my Aquarian Sun in Virgo's H6, doesn't let it be it's most extrovert self (and Sun in 6 in any case makes daily work my central theme). In my H11 (in Gem) I have placement of Saturn, which certainly also complicates matters of H11 (friendships etc) a lot for me. I have few, but quality friends, and in keeping with Saturn, they are mostly much older, and usually live farther away. However, I will (most humbly) call myself a very friendly person. Saturn in H11 (mine is in Gem-Air) does not stop be me being friendly, but gets me few and more matue friends.
Hope I could explain this a bit.
//aquarius