Re: if he found me attractive first, what made him change his mind?
But if horary is a snapshot of how things are in the present moment, perhaps its only reflected that way because she feels that way due to feeling rejected by him first? So maybe she rejected him out of fear of BEING rejected, he sensed it, and now we're here?
That would be looking for a complicated explanation, that has no basis at all in the chart the OP posted. The far simpler explanation is he just did not like the querent.
Given the question relates specificly to how the querent looks, and the querent was indeed asking about it, then we have to take the chart for what it is: an answer to the querent.
So...does the quesited dislike the querent in the physical sense?
Yes he did (Mars in detriment of Venus). I'm sorry if I don't sugarcoat the answer, but that is what was asked.
The Moon, as you can see is in Venus own fall (Virgo). So this signifies the querent dislikes her own appearance.
Now one question we may add:
IS THE QUERENT UGLY? Doesn't seem like it.
She is represented by Venus, planet of beauty, present in Gemini and with Libra rising (both "human" signs, usually associated with good looks). Usually all of these would point out to her being, well, attractive.
There is however the matter of the state of Venus. Venus is coming out of combustion, and while in Gemini did an opposition to Saturn (a very harmful past aspect), and had a sqaure with Jupiter with very bad reception.
So.... did something happened that affects her beauty...? The querent states she dislikes her body, not herself as whole. In my experience most people with this question would claim to be a bit overweight, but I suppose that any none natural scarring to the body may count. Maybe querent suffered some sort of accident, disease or disorder that affects the natural shape of her body, t least in a way that may make the querent herself feel ugly (scars, overweight, disease, etc).
So, its up to the querent to fill us in.