Proceed with Marriage or No ???

CaliCapricorn97

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this is my boyfriend and I chart, do we have good enough compatibility for marriage and starting a family ?
 

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ElenaJ

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CaliCapricorn, marriage is for life, which is a very long time. If you have any doubts whatsoever, it means you should wait, and there is no need to look at the charts. Especially if there will be children involved.
In the composite notice Juno, the marriage asteroid, that has transiting Uranus conjunct, pushing things forward impatiently. Mars on north node shows the attraction between you two, but also the tendency for arguments. Mars inconjunct mercury might explain this, you each have habits that will get on each other's nerves. This is on the level of, "he never puts the cap back on the toothpaste tube", etc, which can be just irritating.
You each have a natal mars/north node conjunction, so you might expect this in a relationship.
On the synastry charts, your sun/jupiter/neotune which is positive and loving and giving, is conjunct his descendent, and this is lovely and very positive for a love contact. The stellium is in wide square with your moon. However his Saturn is conjunct that moon, and squares the configuration, putting a wet blanket on your fire.
Your Saturn conjunct his Amor turns his love into a duty and responsibility.
Your descendent is ruled by Saturn, so you do tend to consider a relationship as a serious business, so this ties in with your natal expectations.
Your moons are in exact trine, which makes you both very sensitive and understanding of the other. This is a perfect aspect to find anywhere.
Your Venus/mercury conjunct descendent is another indication of what you expect in a relationship, both square your mars/north node, so you have a tendency to be sexually demanding and a little short tempered with your partner.
His sun/venus completes a T-square with your square. Tension.
This takes on more importance in that your 5th house of children is ruled by Venus, so you would only consider having children in a marriage, but it will create tension for you.
And it is involved in the T-square between you.
You are still young, there is time for you to carefully consider who you want as your lifetime partner, and who you would like to share the responsibility of your children with. You may decide he is the perfect fit for you, but there is no need to jump into it until you are 100% convinced.
 

CaliCapricorn97

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CaliCapricorn, marriage is for life, which is a very long time. If you have any doubts whatsoever, it means you should wait, and there is no need to look at the charts. Especially if there will be children involved.
In the composite notice Juno, the marriage asteroid, that has transiting Uranus conjunct, pushing things forward impatiently. Mars on north node shows the attraction between you two, but also the tendency for arguments. Mars inconjunct mercury might explain this, you each have habits that will get on each other's nerves. This is on the level of, "he never puts the cap back on the toothpaste tube", etc, which can be just irritating.
You each have a natal mars/north node conjunction, so you might expect this in a relationship.
On the synastry charts, your sun/jupiter/neotune which is positive and loving and giving, is conjunct his descendent, and this is lovely and very positive for a love contact. The stellium is in wide square with your moon. However his Saturn is conjunct that moon, and squares the configuration, putting a wet blanket on your fire.
Your Saturn conjunct his Amor turns his love into a duty and responsibility.
Your descendent is ruled by Saturn, so you do tend to consider a relationship as a serious business, so this ties in with your natal expectations.
Your moons are in exact trine, which makes you both very sensitive and understanding of the other. This is a perfect aspect to find anywhere.
Your Venus/mercury conjunct descendent is another indication of what you expect in a relationship, both square your mars/north node, so you have a tendency to be sexually demanding and a little short tempered with your partner.
His sun/venus completes a T-square with your square. Tension.
This takes on more importance in that your 5th house of children is ruled by Venus, so you would only consider having children in a marriage, but it will create tension for you.
And it is involved in the T-square between you.
You are still young, there is time for you to carefully consider who you want as your lifetime partner, and who you would like to share the responsibility of your children with. You may decide he is the perfect fit for you, but there is no need to jump into it until you are 100% convinced.

I don’t have doubts I was just curious if we had the longevity ascpects and if our charts favors marriage and family :)

What does our Stellium in our composite 8th house means?

You’re right about the irritation parts some little things he does does irritate to me lol but it’s not major

You mention Juno transiting our Uranus and causing impatience does this mean we both are impatient and want to speed it up ?
 

ElenaJ

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"You mention Juno transiting our Uranus and causing impatience does this mean we both are impatient and want to speed it up ?"

Exactly. Just so you know what is pushing you to take action.
 

kshantaram

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Fiery moons aries and sag in trine, lords mars n jupiter compatible.

Same ascendant sensitive cancer.

while both mars-NNode libra, toxic health issues, rise-fall in life;
stormy anger when provoked; wear brown hessonites over pendant;

Moon-mars opp volatile emotions and finances;
Sun-mars opp hyper-energetic and temperamental;

both 7th lord saturn over 10th, supportive but dominating spouse;
rise-fall in careers; SNode 10th, career-job changes, pain-injury-surgery;
prayers to Christ, offer red flowers tues mornings;

Moon-saturn aries, impulsive, aptitude for social work;
Sun-sat aries, autocratic; public administration etc;

Your 9th lord saturn, settling life at 36+,
his 9th lord jupiter negating to 8th, negating luck;

8th stellium composite, chronic health issues,
hermetic-indifferent attitude towards life;
Acquarius 8th reformist, innovative, research oriented.

Taurus-venus inimical for cancer ascendant, venus cap 7th,
stress-delays in marriage-vocation; abdominal health issues, kidney-skin etc;


Asc-7th lords composite moon-sat over acq-aries enemy signs,
not compatible, forced relationship;


Composite 9th lord for luck saturn debilated 10th for career;

Sun pisces 10th, sensitive, ethical, spiritual, traditional,
lord jup negating to 8th, negating luck;

Jupiter-saturn now transit 8th stellium over jup-moon, under stress,
success amidst adversity;


How helpful, share salient feedbacks
how true traits-talents-health-life trends etc etc


wishing you well, JYOTISHBHUSHAN SHANTARAM
 
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