To illustrate the contradictory nature of this typing. I am currently going through a controversy IRL (surprise surprise) and the response I have taken is outward and aggressive, instead of retreating into my mind like the description of a typical 5 would have it. The sx instinct is counterflow to both 5 & 6 (eccentuates 4 but you know that intimately). Also don't forget 5's connection to 8 which I think I am in touch with. (I am much more physically adroit and active than the standard descriptions of 5 indicate)
How do you think sx is counterflow to 6? In my mind, sx seems to accentuate any reactive type, 6 included. Also, I can see the 5w6, I'd say if you're sx first, definitely sx so and sp last. I remember you saying the first time we talked about enneagram that you tested as a 7. If you're sp last, that might explain it. It may make the line that also runs to 7 a little stronger. You actually remind me a lot of 5w6s I used to know on an old enneagram forum. I can see the 6 wing come out sometimes, but that primary 5
For the sake of the thread, would you like to post your chart again and note in more depth where you think the 5w6 and perhaps even the instinct is made obvious?
I'm a 4w5 sx sp myself with a very strong connection to my 5 wing and I think the odd mix between fiery emotion and cerebrality is on the most basic level possibly explained by my being a Cancer with my sun/moon in my 1st house, my 12th house Chiron, Uranus being a high influencer(unpredictability?) along with Neptune, mixed with a strong and influencial but damaged Mercury, Pluto 3rd house, and being a heavy retrograde individual
I hadn't tended to this thread just bc I was focused on my personal life for a while, but I'd love to get a good discussion going so thank you for coming in lmfao
on a sidenote, what do you think about tritype theory? A lot of people follow it and it could possibly add extra layers and explanations as to why you're not as withdrawn as the standard 5w6
Tho I have a complaint: I find that 4 and 5, especially 4w5 and 5w4, get mythologized and idealized even by an enneagram community I used to be a part of that was extremely private and serious about the study and theorizing. Many times the withdrawnness is focused on to the point of making these types into fictional characters like geniuses that are so rare and so special that you're absolutely anything but 4 or 5 until proven otherwise by a battery of intense tests. The withdrawnness becomes emphasized because it falls into this beautiful painting of an introverted, misunderstood genius that is so sensitive it can barely function at all in the real world and may as well only be a fictional character
--in reality we have many actors and musicians of these types who aren't even particular geniuses of their crafts. The fixations of these types may drive individuals to pursue various arts and sciences and engagements with theories of all kinds, but it doesn't guarantee they'll be particularly noteworthy in these fields as much as some communities and descriptions may love to emphasize these aspects
I probably harped on too much about that, but it's probably very obvious by now I have a major issue with anything that becomes idealized to the point of unreality. That may seem ironic given that my type is prone to selfidealization while immature, but really, I believe that's part of why I'm so aware of this trend in any theory collective