Many thanks to you both for replying
R4VEN, in regard to these misunderstanding issues, they have been lasting for a few months now, so while Mars is transiting 3rd house cusp probably have something to do with it at the moment, I am guessing that Saturn transiting Mercury(3rd house ruler) has made this communication problems that have been lasting a while, especially because Saturn was going back and forth while retrograding. But if you haven't mentioned Mars on 3rd I would have never thought of investigating into 3rd house a bit more
I am aware of this Yod, although not much familiar with the essence of Yods, I do know that Chiron in 11th has brought me lot of emotional pain from wrecked friendships all though my life and it's working again. Thanks for pointing that out.
astrologer50, many thanks for the insight. No, at 22 when my progressed Sun hit that Pluto I had a bust up with a partner much older than me, but it was in no way too emotional or life changing, that was all that was happening during that time.
Yes, Pluto is sqauring my Sun, IC and MC for long, I think that has been manifesting as my mothers long illness. Also, Uranus is hitting MC, opposing Sun and IC, and that also I connect with my mother in some way because Uranus disposed my Moon and my mom and my relationship with her is purely Uranian, she has Uranus on AC.
I also at the moment feel lack of direction in terms of career and hope Uranus will bring some sudden change regarding that.
I've been reading a lot on Saturn Pluto and Ascendant connection, found the link and the quote you left, it sounds about right, but the part I relate to most as to my life conditions now is the following:
Saturn Square Ascendant: Severe testing in your relationships with
others. Evaluate which relationships are worth keeping and which
aren't. If you do not do this consciously, people who have been with
you a long time will leave against your wishes. There is often a
tendancy to build a wall between you and others without even realizing
it. You may feel you have no support from others. Perhaps you have
been paying more attention to getting ahead than to giving and receiving
love. Or perhaps fear of your own inadequacies or fear that you are
unlovable made you withdraw from others. In this case, the people you
associate with are opposed to your direction in life and walls will form
between you and them, forcing you to begin a new life without them.
Develop a clear idea of where you are going and enjoy a new sense of
freedom instead of trying to maintain inappropriare relationships.
from
http://astrolog.offline.ee/astrolog/texts/transits.txt