cherrybelle
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I owe money from my abusive ex for my education expenses around $10,000. Last year I was going to pay but there was a problem with his bank, so I told him to open another account so I could transfer the money back, but he was lazy. As the time passes, I've money issues and don't have as much money as before.
I dated him for years and he was so stingy. Oh well, despite of being rich, he asked me to share all bills and I even spent my money for his own needs. My salary was just 20% of his, but he wanted me to participate exactly 50-50 at least. I think I spent more than him tbh and I didn't get any worthy gift from him, his most expensive gift was $10 stuffed animal lol.
2 years ago, I had a chance to go study abroad but I had no money, he told me he would send me monthly allowance so I should take the opportunity. No monthly allowance. In fact, he gave me $10,000 right away and told me to pay it back when I have money. Around 6 months after that, I ended the relationship because I couldn't take it anymore.
I've been thinking of his abusive behaviors toward me for the whole 7 years we were together and somehow I think I deserve more than $10,000 for the emotional breakdowns I have...which is actually my justification of my financial condition right now, I can't pay because I don't have lol.
Do I really need to pay back?
I dated him for years and he was so stingy. Oh well, despite of being rich, he asked me to share all bills and I even spent my money for his own needs. My salary was just 20% of his, but he wanted me to participate exactly 50-50 at least. I think I spent more than him tbh and I didn't get any worthy gift from him, his most expensive gift was $10 stuffed animal lol.
2 years ago, I had a chance to go study abroad but I had no money, he told me he would send me monthly allowance so I should take the opportunity. No monthly allowance. In fact, he gave me $10,000 right away and told me to pay it back when I have money. Around 6 months after that, I ended the relationship because I couldn't take it anymore.
I've been thinking of his abusive behaviors toward me for the whole 7 years we were together and somehow I think I deserve more than $10,000 for the emotional breakdowns I have...which is actually my justification of my financial condition right now, I can't pay because I don't have lol.
Do I really need to pay back?
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