Thank the both of you for the interesting replies. I can see north node/south node Capricorn/Cancer as fitting with Capricorn stellium, I can read that as either great responsibility for slow and immense reward in the positive sense or growing up to soon vs a delayed adulthood in the negative sense.
I like to read the slower planets as a generational cohort aspect, its interesting our saturn return this year has saturn in cap conjunct pluto in capricorn activating our stellium conjunction but maybe that is for another thread.
I was glad to see I still had pisces in my chart, instead now on MC. I am not attached to other people seeing me in any one certain way. I just thought of way I might be a little like gemini, overthinking, living in ones head, having head in the clouds, not from unusual ideas or flights of fancy but over cerebral introspection, like the absent minded professor stereotype.
@Forestfairy, I had recently just written that exact thing in my journal, about needing to value myself more. interesting to hear this articulated as a wound, maybe.
I am just looking at my house placements for the first time, as I write this, along with moon in taurus, I had always liked jupiter in leo irregardless of relating to it and now look at this "Jupiter in the 3rd House people can regularly expend a lot of energy in thinking, to the point of over-thinking."
Maybe "discriminating taste" is my positive and harmonious venus aspects. "Yo-yo, all or nothing" could be (ruling the emotions) taurus in moon inertia versus busy bee gemini mars.
"You always know when to say the wrong thing" or laying into someone when angry ""You never know when to stop"? haha.
What house aspect stand out "Retrograde Mars 12th" and three Capricorn planets in the eighth house, including North Node. With Gemini Asc my eighth house is in Capricorn (because where else would it be)