AquaVenusian
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ok, a long time I haven't been here !!
hello guys!!
I have a very big doubt, mainly because we are in retrograde mercury and we know how much confusion this transit can cause !!
This girl I met in an unexpected meeting with a group of friends and at the time she was with her girlfriend but she was very interested in my knowledge of astrology !! We exchanged contacts and since she expressed a desire to introduce me to a friend of hers, which I actually already know, but I met a long time ago because her friend was dating the sister of a friend of mine! (sorry if this is confused) ... but anyway ...
Me, of course ... as some of you may know I left a toxic relationship almost a year ago ... my heart is closed but I am always open to friendships ... but I don't want anything else !! And this meeting that she wanted to introduce me to her friend, besides I have no interest in this friend of hers has not yet happened !!
But, a week ago I went to a party of another friend of mine and I posted photos ... so she asked me to ask her out ... at that moment I thought it was strange (because she had a girlfriend, as far as I knew) ... she said to me that she is now single and that she wanted me to ask her out on a date !!
Of course I was surprised ... well, she is attractive ... I was interested in her and we talked almost frequently this week !!
On Saturday she called me to meet her and her friends but I was already asleep !!
Yesterday I told her that we could go out this week if it is possible for her .... so she replied that she would love that !!
Today she sent me a message wanting to make adjustments but telling me (again) that she is dying to introduce me to her friend ... (I completely lost interest, in this confusion of intentions) and one more thing her natal chart is almost the same as the natal chart of my ex!! (this freaks me out)
I lived in a confused and toxic relationship once, I don't want this for my life anymore !! Maybe I'm being hasty in making assumptions ... but I want to avoid it before it extends !!
basically, when I found out she was single I responded to the perceived interest ... and I thought she did too ... but now she insisting on presenting to her friend ... I have no interest in her friend ... and I don't want stay in that spot of confusion. Do you guys know what I mean?!
What do you think?
If I was not clear in the story, please let me know
hello guys!!
I have a very big doubt, mainly because we are in retrograde mercury and we know how much confusion this transit can cause !!
This girl I met in an unexpected meeting with a group of friends and at the time she was with her girlfriend but she was very interested in my knowledge of astrology !! We exchanged contacts and since she expressed a desire to introduce me to a friend of hers, which I actually already know, but I met a long time ago because her friend was dating the sister of a friend of mine! (sorry if this is confused) ... but anyway ...
Me, of course ... as some of you may know I left a toxic relationship almost a year ago ... my heart is closed but I am always open to friendships ... but I don't want anything else !! And this meeting that she wanted to introduce me to her friend, besides I have no interest in this friend of hers has not yet happened !!
But, a week ago I went to a party of another friend of mine and I posted photos ... so she asked me to ask her out ... at that moment I thought it was strange (because she had a girlfriend, as far as I knew) ... she said to me that she is now single and that she wanted me to ask her out on a date !!
Of course I was surprised ... well, she is attractive ... I was interested in her and we talked almost frequently this week !!
On Saturday she called me to meet her and her friends but I was already asleep !!
Yesterday I told her that we could go out this week if it is possible for her .... so she replied that she would love that !!
Today she sent me a message wanting to make adjustments but telling me (again) that she is dying to introduce me to her friend ... (I completely lost interest, in this confusion of intentions) and one more thing her natal chart is almost the same as the natal chart of my ex!! (this freaks me out)
I lived in a confused and toxic relationship once, I don't want this for my life anymore !! Maybe I'm being hasty in making assumptions ... but I want to avoid it before it extends !!
basically, when I found out she was single I responded to the perceived interest ... and I thought she did too ... but now she insisting on presenting to her friend ... I have no interest in her friend ... and I don't want stay in that spot of confusion. Do you guys know what I mean?!
What do you think?
If I was not clear in the story, please let me know
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