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Should I try and get back together with him? Everything is changing signs

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Iím really asking for someone to slap me here if itís a no bc I canít seem to wake up out of this fog. I need help. I miss my bf.

So first thing is that itís quite an early ascendant, 4í59. I did ask ďwill we get back togetherĒ about 3 weeks ago and it didnít seem yes then, but time has passed, things have changed.. slightly. Itís almost 5į so not under 3į. In that case I would see it as showing there are events yet to unfold.

Secondly, everything on cusps, I guess it shows everything is about to change. Iím Jupiter conj. Venus in 10th Sag, square moon, soon moving into Cap. which isnít great but I will touch my Part of Fortune so it could be good news for work coming up

He is Mercury in intercepted Scorpio in the 9th, so he canít Ďexpressí the secrets or sex of Scorpio. Heís also in the via combusta. Mars has just entered Scorpio at 1í52į and is sneaking up behind him as he slowly starts to go direct again. In the other direction heís heading straight for the sun. I donít know what this means but it seems like some kind of trouble

His co-sig Sun is on the MC in Scorpio, 29í32į. Sun sextiles moon so there is still some affection and friendliness, but it doesnít aspect any other inner planets.

The moon is moving away from the square with Venus and the exact sextile with the sun, and changing signs into Libra. Is itís next aspect square Saturn?

Anyway I donít know if this means no, or not yet, or if the sun-moon contact means yes

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Re: Should I try and get back together with him? Everything is changing signs

Moon is void, by very little, leaving the sextile with sun.
Mercury, him, does approach a trine with you as Neptune in ascendent.
So, you may get together again, but it will be him contacting you.
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Moon is void, by very little, leaving the sextile with sun.
Mercury, him, does approach a trine with you as Neptune in ascendent.
So, you may get together again, but it will be him contacting you.
So the aspect perfects in 4į (next Thursday), which is the day Neptune goes direct.

Heís in a fixed sign in a cadent house. If I go off the applying planet only itís impossible to tell. Jarjis says that if the planet being applied to is in a mutable sign in an angular house, each unit is a month. So he might contact me in 4 months? Bonatti says that if one is in an angular and one is cadent itís months as well. However, Lily says the number of degrees until perfection in a cadent house = days.

Mercury conjuncts Jupiter 3rd January, which is the day I fly back from my Christmas break, but Iíll be in my fall in Cap. He conjuncts Neptune 4th April, but then heíll be in his fall in Pisces

Yeah I know Iím down the rabbit hole
Youíve all been there

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Re: Should I try and get back together with him? Everything is changing signs

If you want him back, then you have to put much efford in it. Moreover I wonder if you really want him back because Jupiter and Venus are receiving mercury in detriment and also moon loves mercury at this moment but soon she will enter into Libra, where she likewise is in mercury's detriment. You are very attracted to him and wants him as mate, for sure, since his Sun is received by Jupiter and Venus in Triplicity. So we can say that you want to be with him but you are very hurt and this negative feelings will get worse. He on the other hand, has still feelings for you but it seems he is also offended or angry currently. However Sun is going to enter into Jupiter's rulership, i.e. he will then "loves" you again. When we look at Saturn, the dispositor of marriage, then we see that both of you are not disinclined to refresh the relationship. So there is still this chance that you will get him back.
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Re: Should I try and get back together with him? Everything is changing signs

I think you will have contact again in about 6 weeks. If we use venus for his "message", then venus will conjunct Jupiter in about 2-3 time units.
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If you want him back, then you have to put much efford in it. Moreover I wonder if you really want him back because Jupiter and Venus are receiving mercury in detriment and also moon loves mercury at this moment but soon she will enter into Libra, where she likewise is in mercury's detriment. You are very attracted to him and wants him as mate, for sure, since his Sun is received by Jupiter and Venus in Triplicity. So we can say that you want to be with him but you are very hurt and this negative feelings will get worse. He on the other hand, has still feelings for you but it seems he is also offended or angry currently. However Sun is going to enter into Jupiter's rulership, i.e. he will then "loves" you again. When we look at Saturn, the dispositor of marriage, then we see that both of you are not disinclined to refresh the relationship. So there is still this chance that you will get him back.
Yeah he is negative just now

So in terms of answering the question, does it mean I can/should try now? ..or I should wait six weeks for him to contact me? Weíll both be overseas in 6 weeks

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Yeah he is negative just now

So in terms of answering the question, does it mean I can/should try now? ..or I should wait six weeks for him to contact me? Weíll both be overseas in 6 weeks
No, don't contact him. Let him contact you!
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No, don't contact him. Let him contact you!
In six weeks?! Mehhhh
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https://imgur.com/3yHu1nm

I’m really asking for someone to slap me here if it’s a no
bc I can’t seem to wake up out of this fog. I need help. I miss my bf.
So first thing is that it’s quite an early ascendant, 4’59.

I did ask “will we get back together” about 3 weeks ago

and it didn’t seem yes then,

but time has passed, things have changed..

slightly.
realistically THREE WEEKS BEFORE ASKING THE SAME QUESTION
is insufficinet time to have passed
before asking same question
early ascendant confirms too soon to re-ask that question
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It’s almost 5į so not under 3į. In that case I would see it as showing there are events yet to unfold.

Secondly, everything on cusps, I guess it shows everything is about to change. I’m Jupiter conj. Venus in 10th Sag, square moon, soon moving into Cap. which isn’t great but I will touch my Part of Fortune so it could be good news for work coming up

He is Mercury in intercepted Scorpio in the 9th, so he can’t ‘express’ the secrets or sex of Scorpio. He’s also in the via combusta. Mars has just entered Scorpio at 1’52į and is sneaking up behind him as he slowly starts to go direct again. In the other direction he’s heading straight for the sun. I don’t know what this means but it seems like some kind of trouble

His co-sig Sun is on the MC in Scorpio, 29’32į. Sun sextiles moon so there is still some affection and friendliness, but it doesn’t aspect any other inner planets.

The moon is moving away from the square with Venus and the exact sextile with the sun, and changing signs into Libra. Is it’s next aspect square Saturn?

Anyway I don’t know if this means no, or not yet, or if the sun-moon contact means yes
Please help
Also, I threw some stars in just for fun
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realistically THREE WEEKS BEFORE ASKING THE SAME QUESTION
is insufficinet time to have passed
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early ascendant confirms too soon to re-ask that question
Yeah I get that but I understood itís pretty much 3į or under to be too early.. I can see the chart kinda agrees with you though. I just feel so strongly (burning desire).. and I know a month-ish is minimal ask again time.. I thought it might be ok in that Iím asking if I should take action to try, and the other question was more just a fatalistic Ďwhether we would get back togetherí (basically if I just waited)
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Re: Should I try and get back together with him? Everything is changing signs

I overlooked the fact that you asked that question onced before! The first chart shows always the truth! Re-asking that question after 3 weeks is too soon! However in that current chart the asc is at 4 Degree, so it is not "too early". You only reformulated your question but still it's the same question or rather the same matter. So it is still answered due to the first chart.

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Yeah I get that but I understood it’s pretty much 3į or under to be too early..
I can see the chart kinda agrees with you though.
it’s 5į
not
'pretty much 3į'
and you noticed that the chart reflects that as well

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I just feel so strongly (burning desire)..
and I know a month-ish is minimal ask again time..

I thought it might be ok

in that I’m asking if I should take action to try, and
the other question was
more just a fatalistic ‘whether we would get back together’

(basically if I just waited)

it's basically same question - waiting or not waiting
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Re: Should I try and get back together with him? Everything is changing signs

If I look to your other threads I notice that you asked about Breakups and reconciliation multiple times this year. Was it always the same Guy? If yes, it seems to be an on-off-thing. This current chart does have the asc in aquarius in sidereal chart, which means that you not only have to try hard to get him back, moreover it shows a cat-and-mouse game. So if you will get back with him , you later will break up again and then come back again and so on.
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Re: Should I try and get back together with him? Everything is changing signs

Ok well Iíve asked a similar question every two or three months in the last year so should I go from the first one? Last October I asked if we were destined for a long term relationship. I meant longer than Ďanother 12 months or soí. I guess no other chart will be valid if Iíve asked the same kind of question again
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Re: Should I try and get back together with him? Everything is changing signs

It is right to ask a question when something has changed in the situation/in the relationship.
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If I look to your other threads I notice that you asked
about Breakups and reconciliation multiple times this year.

Was it always the same Guy?
If yes, it seems to be an on-off-thing.

This current chart does have the asc in aquarius in sidereal chart, which means
that you not only have to try hard to get him back, moreover
it shows a cat-and-mouse game.
So if you will get back with him , you later will break up again
and then come back again and so on.
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Ok well I’ve asked a similar question
every two or three months in the last year
so should I go from the first one?
Last October I asked if we were destined for a long term relationship.
I meant longer than ‘another 12 months or so’.
I guess no other chart will be valid if I’ve asked the same kind of question again
Will post
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Re: Should I try and get back together with him? Everything is changing signs

This issue about validation when reasking a question is debatable. I have noticed that the second, reasking chart, often shows the same outcome , even often with the same significators and aspects. However we always go with the first chart. The charts will get more invalid by reasking.
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Re: Should I try and get back together with him? Everything is changing signs

https://imgur.com/fhzS225

ďIs our relationship destined for the long term?Ē (Meaning life partners) This is from last October
Weíre Mercury and Jupiter conjunct, but in Scorpio, with Sun and Venus combust, and both via combusta, who are opposite Moon in Aries in 2nd. We both square L2 ruler Mars

Moon nears a conjunction with Uranus when it changes sign

Oh my god is there literally anything good in this chart?! 😆

It looks like an intense, dramatic, emotional and painful relationship that will last a bit longer but will eventually suddenly end

Actually at that time was not good for us so explains some of the turmoil in the chart

Anyway

What do you think

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https://imgur.com/fhzS225

ďIs our relationship destined for the long term?Ē (Meaning life partners) This is from last October
Weíre Mercury and Jupiter conjunct, but in Scorpio, with Sun and Venus combust, and both via combusta, who are opposite Moon in Aries in 2nd. We both square L2 ruler Mars

Moon nears a conjunction with Uranus when it changes sign

Oh my god is there literally anything good in this chart?! 😆

It looks like an intense, dramatic, emotional and painful relationship that will last a bit longer but will eventually suddenly end

Actually at that time was not good for us so explains some of the turmoil in the chart

Anyway

What do you think
Yep! sidereal ASC is also aquarius! Seems to be the tone of your relationship.
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https://imgur.com/fhzS225

“Is our relationship destined for the long term?” (Meaning life partners) This is from last October
We’re Mercury and Jupiter conjunct, but in Scorpio, with Sun, Venus combust, and both via combusta, who are opposite Moon in Aries in 2nd. We both square L2 ruler Mars
Moon nears a conjunction with Uranus when it changes sign
Oh my god is there literally anything good in this chart?! ��
It looks like an intense, dramatic, emotional and painful relationship that will last a bit longer but will eventually suddenly end
Actually at that time was not good for us so explains some of the turmoil in the chart
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What do you think
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Yep! sidereal ASC is also aquarius! Seems to be the tone of your relationship.
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This issue about validation when reasking a question is debatable. I have noticed that
the second, reasking chart, often shows the same outcome , even often with the same significators and aspects.
However we always go with the first chart.
The charts will get more invalid by reasking.

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If I look to your other threads I notice that you asked about Breakups and reconciliation multiple times this year. Was it always the same Guy? If yes, it seems to be an on-off-thing. This current chart does have the asc in aquarius in sidereal chart, which means that you not only have to try hard to get him back, moreover it shows a cat-and-mouse game. So if you will get back with him , you later will break up again and then come back again and so on.
Yeah itís the same guy 😔 itís been tumultuous. Hence me wanting to know if it can settle down and we can work through our issues together and be happy together or if itís a fundamentally *wrong* relationship and I just have Stockholm Syndrome
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Yeah it’s the same guy �� it’s been tumultuous. Hence me wanting to know if it can settle down and we can work through our issues together and be happy together or if it’s a fundamentally *wrong* relationship and I just have Stockholm Syndrome
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This issue about validation when reasking a question is debatable.
I have noticed that the second, reasking chart, often shows the same outcome ,
even often with the same significators and aspects.
However we always go with the first chart.
The charts will get more invalid by reasking.
and so
keeping that in mind
you appear to have exhausted horary on this question
and need to
seek answers elsewhere
mindfulness meditation is helpful with Stockholm Syndrome
most cities offer FREE classes regularly often on a monthly basis
sometimes more frequently
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and so
keeping that in mind
you appear to have exhausted horary on this question
and need to
seek answers elsewhere
mindfulness meditation is helpful with Stockholm Syndrome
most cities offer FREE classes regularly often on a monthly basis
sometimes more frequently
Thanks, yes I have actually done a few vipassana courses but have obviously got distracted from my practice lately and now look where I am
I know youíre right, the only thing left for me really is to get back to my mat...
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Yep! sidereal ASC is also aquarius! Seems to be the tone of your relationship.
Ohh ok.. so even if we reconciled the same thing would probably just keep happening ie. he wouldnít come to therapy and turn into a chilled out guy I can understand 😄
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Yeah itís the same guy 😔 itís been tumultuous. Hence me wanting to know if it can settle down and we can work through our issues together and be happy together or if itís a fundamentally *wrong* relationship and I just have Stockholm Syndrome
Did you ever post a synastry and/or composite of the relationship?
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