lucidpisces, I think that if you had psychic powers, you wouldn't need to ask an astrologer. Your own experiences would tell you However, sun Pisces people are often very intuitive about people, because they can tune into people's emotional states. This is a blessing and a curse. A blessing because people appreciate your capacity for acceptance on an emotional level. A negative if you spend much time around negative people, because their vibes will bring you down, as well.
This two-sided coin is reinforced by your Cancer rising. You can be a real friend to someone who needs a cup of tea, a confidante, or a shoulder to cry on. But if your own feelings are hurt, the crab tends to retreat into its shell, never going out, except to snap its claws once in a while when it feels threatened. With these placements, you sort of have to be OK with feeling emotionally vulnerable.
People tend to be paradoxical. We're like committees or extended families of different people. Your Aries moon, Venus, and Mercury indicate that you have a big independent streak. This pattern is reinforced by your sun-square Mars, which can make you feel like a big pressure cooker sometimes. I wonder if you've engaged in any kind of social activism, because we sometimes see this where Pisces' concern for all of humanity joins Aries' more assertive, active nature. If you haven't, you might find some sort of activism compatible with your nature.
With a Mars-sun contact, you probably need some kind of regular physical workout to blow off that steam. Even if it's just finding a TV or on-line work-out that you can do at home once a day. Otherwise you may feel tense for no apparent reason a lot of the time. With Mercury (your thinking) square Neptune-Uranus, your thoughts might feel jangly a lot of the time, so meditation or yoga would be helpful, as well.
Think of each of your planets as having different personalities and motivations. Some of them get along famously, others are at odds with one another. It can be hard to learn just how they can compromise to all get along.
Can you post your natal chart with transits for the date of the birth of your child, or the conception date if you know it? You can do this on the Astrodienst free charts pages where you did your natal chart. This would give a better sense as to what was going on.
Can you say more about the source of your confusion? Transiting Pluto (the big change guy) has been hitting a bunch of your natal planets for the past couple of years. His strategy is "out with the old to make way for the new," but he isn't too gentle about it.
With that Saturn in the 8th I wonder if you have had to be strong in life because of circumstances or even people (metaphorically, perhaps) failing you in a major way. You've had a lot of hurt feelings in life, but this placement suggests that your personal growth comes from learning patience, perseverance, and a very un-Pisces like ability to detatch emotionally from circumstances you must endure and cannot change.
A big strength in your chart is your sun trine Pluto. This suggests you have the capacity for profound personal transformations. No doubt becoming a mother at a young age was one of them.
If you are just learning astrology, I highly recommend the book by Steven Forrest, The Inner Sky.