In the synastry, if your partner's ASC, Moon or Sun is in one of your water houses (4th, 8th, 12th) and/or the 7th house and vice versa. In the composite, a focus on 4th, 7th or 9th house is usually a pretty good indicator.
what if my mars in his 5th house? and venus, pluto in his 4th house? What would he feel?
When your Mars is in your partner's fifth house, this is usually an indication of strong sexual chemistry. In the natal chart, Mars is considered to be the planet which rules sexuality even though the eighth house in the chart (ruled by Scorpio/Pluto) is considered to be the house of sex. Among other things, the fifth house rules romance and children -- so when your Mars falls into your partner's fifth house, it tends to generate sexual interest (although not necessarily of the kind which leads to long-term commitment). How this attraction plays out between you will be affected to some extent by the aspects your Mars forms with other planets in your partner's chart and your own, what sign your Mars is in, and what sign/planet is the fifth house ruler in your partner's chart.
When your Venus and your Pluto fall into your partner's fourth house, this will usually have a powerful effect on your partner's emotions -- one which is not always comfortable, since Pluto tends to transform whatever it touches. The fourth house is ruled by Cancer/the Moon (which is a Water sign/planet) and thus it is an emotionally vulnerable house because it rules motherhood and the family of origin. When your Venus falls into another person's fourth house, the other person usually feels very comfortable and "at home" with you. However, as before, the way in which this plays out depends to some extent by the aspects which Venus and Pluto form with other planets in your partner's chart and your own chart -- also by what sign/planet is the fourth house ruler in your partner's chart. If your Venus and your partner's fourth house ruler are in an Air sign, the nature of this emotional connection is probably not going to be quite as intense as it would be if they were in a water sign because Air signs tend to be more cerebral than emotional.
thanks for replying can you look at both charts to see if he actually has some type of feelings towards me? we not together but someday i hope so. I got both synastry and compostite charts.
Assuming that his birth time is correct, the overlay chart is a bit mixed. As you have already pointed out, your Venus is in his fourth house -- however, that appears to be the only one of your inner planets which falls into one of his emotionally vulnerable houses. Your Sun falls into his third house, your Moon into his sixth house, and your Mercury and Mars into his fifth house. The fact that your Venus falls into his fourth house is a good sign, but it would be preferable if there were more of your inner planets in his emotional houses. As I pointed out before, the fact that your Mars falls into his fifth house suggests a strong amount of physical attraction but a more superficial kind rather than the kind that tends to have staying power.
It's almost impossible to tell from this chart which of your houses his planets activate...but as much as I hate to say it, the overlay chart does appear to suggest that your interest in him is stronger than his interest in you. One reason why I say this is because his planets aspect your Moon (inconjunct with his Moon, opposite his Jupiter, sextile his Saturn, trine his Uranus, sextile his Neptune, and trine his Pluto) more than your planets aspect his (your Moon is inconjunct with his, your Mars and Neptune oppose it, and your Pluto trines it). There isn't much interaction between your planets and his Venus, either -- your Sun squares it, your Saturn sextiles it -- or between your planets and his Mars. The two planets in his chart which you activate most strongly are his Sun and his Jupiter, and you also activate his Ascendant quite strongly -- but not all the aspects are easy. In fact, there's more than a couple of inconjuncts here with his Jupiter and Ascendant -- and inconjuncts are the hardest aspects to deal with. What this suggests to me is that he probably has some feelings for you -- but they're more likely to be feelings of friendship and camaraderie rather than romance. Your Mars also squares his Saturn, which is usually considered quite a challenging aspect because Mars and Saturn end up at cross purposes -- Mars says "let's go" but Saturn says "no."
The composite is a little bit stronger -- but the overlay chart has to generate enough interest for the composite to kick in, and I also don't really see enough of the kind of aspects in the composite that I feel would be solid enough to compensate for the somewhat lackluster overlay chart. I see Sun conjunct Mars and Moon trine Venus, which are good...but I really need to see things like Sun conjunct/sextile/trine Moon, Venus conjunct/sextile/trine Mars, and/or favorable aspects involving Saturn (of which there are none) to judge this composite as strong enough to make up for what is lacking in the overlay. I know this is not what you want to hear, but this is what I'm seeing. I wouldn't put all of your eggs in this guy's basket.
I think mine is the other one. I got confused here,
i did cafe astrology synastry chart and here are the results
his
Sun Square Mercury 0.12 -387
Sun Conjunction Jupiter 0.11 225
Sun Conjunction Ascendant 2.54 162
Moon Opposition Mars 3.24 -79
Moon Opposition Neptune 3.31 -49
Venus Sextile Saturn 1.49 47
Mars Conjunction Sun 1.26 228
Mars Sextile Uranus 1.19 50
Jupiter Square Pluto 1.16 -79
Uranus Trine Moon 2.33 55
Ascendant Square Pluto
His planets on the left side while mine on the right.
when looking at bi wheel, i am still an amateur.
You mentioned in an earlier post that your Venus and your Pluto fall into his fourth house -- and if that information is still correct, then his planets are the ones in black on the overlay chart while your planets are the ones in red. The information you've provided confirms that this is the case -- you are the Libra, he is the Capricorn. That being said, it really doesn't matter that much which is which as long as the information regarding date and time and place of birth for both people are accurate -- because the aspects will be the same in either case.
I stand by what I said before...neither the aspects in the overlay chart or those in the composite strike me as being terribly favorable for long-term romantic interest on his part, and they suggest that your interest in him is greater than his interest in you.
There are a few positive aspects in your overlay chart, yes -- his Sun sextiles your Venus, his Sun conjuncts your Mars, his Sun conjuncts your Ascendant, your Moon opposes his Ascendant, and your Venus sextiles his Saturn. However, at least in my own experience, there are five planets or points in a man's chart that a woman's planets need to aspect (and aspect favorably if at all possible) if she wants to have much hope that he will consider her as a prospective romantic partner. The most important of these five are the Moon, Venus, and the Ascendant -- Mars and Saturn are also important but to a slightly lesser extent and in a slightly different way. As I pointed out, several of his planets aspect your Moon favorably (suggesting that he has a strong effect on your emotions) -- but your planets do not aspect his Moon as much or as favorably. In fact, your Moon forms an inconjunct with his -- and as I stated before, inconjuncts are the hardest aspects to work with because there's no common ground to work from (neither the elements nor the energies in Mutable Air or Cardinal Earth are considered compatible, because Mutable Air is not very grounded while Cardinal Earth is very practical and goal-oriented). Your Mars also opposes his Moon, which is associated with disagreements and arguments -- he perceives you as too forceful, you perceive him as too sensitive. Your Moon also opposes his Neptune -- and speaking from my own personal experience, hard aspects in synastry involving Neptune are VERY tricky to deal with because they're frequently associated with deception -- usually not deliberate or malicious deception, but deception nonetheless. The person whose planet forms an aspect with Neptune is usually looking at the Neptune person with the proverbial "rose-colored glasses"...but that can only last so long, and there's usually a rather rude awakening when the glasses come off.
It's the same thing with Venus -- the plain and simple truth is that there are not many connections involving Venus for either one of you, and one of the aspects you have with his Venus is a challenging one. Your Sun squares his Venus, suggesting that your ego needs are at odds with the way he usually expresses affection -- and yes, Venus in Capricorn does tend to express affection in a very different way than Sun in Libra would prefer. Granted, there is a mutual aspect here -- but it's easy in one direction (the direction affecting your Venus) and challenging in the other which means it's harder for him to express whatever affection he might feel for you. The truth is that it's difficult for him to express affection, period -- I'll point out why at the end.
The pattern is repeated again with Mars -- his planets aspect your Mars more than your planets aspect his, and a lot of those aspects are challenging (Mars opposite Moon, Mars inconjunct Jupiter, Mars square Saturn, Mars square Uranus, Mars inconjunct Ascendant). You do have mutual Mars-Uranus aspects -- but again, they're easy in one direction (favoring him) and challenging in the other direction. With his Uranus square your Mars, there is a distinct potential for you to find him elusive and unreliable and for any romantic relationship between the two of you to be very much on-again/off-again. Yes, a few challenging aspects are a good thing in a relationship because a relationship which is too easy does not motivate the people involved to grow emotionally...but when there are some serious challenging aspects between two people's planets as there appear to be here (especially the Mars-Saturn square), you need to have a lot of very positive aspects to balance those out and I'm just not seeing enough of them.
When it comes to the Ascendant, your planets actually aspect his more than his aspect yours -- but again, most of these are very difficult aspects and some of these (your Mars inconjunct his Ascendant, your Pluto square his Ascendant) could make it difficult for you to even get a relationship off the ground. Pluto square Ascendant tends to create a lot of intensity in a relationship because Pluto transforms whatever it touches. This aspect can work for two people who are both highly self-aware and committed to personal growth...but someone with his Moon in Gemini is usually not looking for that sort of intensity. I'm also seeing some aspects within his natal chart -- Sun opposite Moon out of sign, Sun square Mars, Moon inconjunct Venus, Moon square Saturn, Moon square Uranus, Moon square Pluto, Venus square Mars -- which tell me that this is someone who finds long-term romantic relationships a real struggle because so many of his planets have conflicting needs.
Hi geminigrrl, I am new to the forum and reading this thread it seems you have a lot of knowledge at interpreting composite charts and was wondering if you could help me with mine.
I wish there was a way i could post it with out having to write it all out but here it goes, again this is a composite chart.
Sun: Scorpio
Moon: Cancer (7th House)
Mercury: Scorpio
Venus: Sagittarius
Mars: Scorpio
Jupiter: Sagittarius
Saturn: Scorpio
Uranus and Neptune: Sagittarius
Pluto: Libra
True Node: Gemini
Dependent: Sagittarius
Vertex:Leo
Juno: Libra
Ac:Capricorn
Mc:Scorpio
Most personal planets are in the 9th 10th and 11th House, moon in 7th vertex is as well.
Thank you if you decide reply ❤️🙏🏾