Advanced Insight Appreciated: Is this connection fated? Several karmic markers

So I recently met this guy and we connected right away, but then when we hung out last night I felt weirdly unsettled. Turns out our charts have a lot of crazy karmic indicators such as his Pluto conjunct my ascendant, his sun/moon midpoint conjunct my Venus, our Suns are mutually in each other's 5th house, but the weirdest part is the first meeting chart. It has a grand cardinal cross in the correct ruling planets/houses, you'll see what I mean. Is this highly compatible or is it a warning?

I included asteroids, vertex, etc in the aspects as well.

My chart with his planets in red outside: https://imageshack.com/a/img924/7843/TrmVJF.png

His chart with my planets in red outside: https://imageshack.com/a/img924/1756/g2l0Jp.png

In addition, my sun/moon midpoint is 5 degrees Scorpio, and his sun/moon midpoint is 17 degrees Leo

Composite Chart midpoint method: https://imageshack.com/a/img923/7901/R6ufdl.png

This is the weirdest part. First meeting chart: http://imagizer.imageshack.us/a/img923/3757/aYL6Qr.png

Okay, here are a few things that stood out to me:

Got to love his Mars right on top of your Venus in Leo. your Venus is way out there in your chart. Very different energy from Your Sun/Merc in Cancer and Moon/Saturn in Pisces. It may even feel foreign to you, as some of the showy things you love and appreciate may not jive with your sensitive. compassionate side.

His Mars probably triggers that fixed fire energy force , in a positive and really sexy way. Maybe that is one reason you felt unsettled?

I would imagine that Pluto /Moon on your Asc. is pretty powerful as well. You have Pluto rising natally, so it is not unfamiliar to you. But coupled with his Moon, it would possibly be a strongly emotional connection. One in which you feel as though he really sees you, really understand who you are?

you guys have a double whammy of Moon conjunct Ascendant. that is a very emotionally comforting aspect, as a general rule. However His Moon on your Asc. is accompanied by Pluto.



His North Node is conjunct your Jupiter. That seems like a beneficial connection, spiritually and growth wise.

Sun/Vesta is an interesting conjunction too. That can be a very accommodating, nurturing energy, being in Cancer in the 5th. And trining the Jupiter/No Node in Scorpio in the 8th.

I feel like there’s definitely a karmic connection I’m just not sure if it’s a good thing or a warning. That first meeting cross is so bizarre on top of everything else. Do you think it’s largely positive or is there anything in there that you think could explain why I had such a strong immediate connection and then a feeling of being ill at ease the next?