Tyrant?
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Please see the chart attached. It's someone I work for.
Feedback on the squares to sun,moon, Uranus and how to deal
with this person.
Thank you.
M
Without accurate TOB this is no chart one can tell anything accurate from. It is only a simple birthday - this person shares with a lot of other people.
Please see the chart attached. It's someone I work for.
Feedback on the squares to sun,moon, Uranus and how to deal
with this person.
.
M
Could it be that you look on everybody through your 4th house trauma childhood eyes - with pluto ruling 4th house and a cautious pluto in 2nd house - self-protection ?
The synastry of you both and your interaction doesn't look so bad as you overtitled this man here.
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Harmelia
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Please see the chart attached. It's someone I work for.
Feedback on the squares to sun,moon, Uranus and how to deal
with this person.
Thank you.
M
We need birth date, birth time and birth city to read a chart.
Harmelia
Well-known member
I'm sorry. I understand that you really want to know how to deal with this person, but I'm not comfortable saying anything without a birth time. It's true that there are things we can read - but not fully - not holistically - and it makes a difference. Maybe others will feel comfortable doing that. Aspects are the least important factor in a chart - at least, the way I do astrology. Yes, they say something, but the ASC says a lot more and is key in the way the person is relating. Whatever I might say, will not be based on a complete picture - so it won't be right. I wish you had the time . . . because sometimes, when we understand why a person is the way they are, it helps in feeling better about their behavior. But other times, even if we understand, it doesn't resolve the issue. They can still bug us.
I always try to work out interpersonal conflicts whenever possible - so kudos to you for wanting to understand him. If he's open to talking about how he is relating to you, and you feel okay about expressing what you think and feel, then there is hope. However, if a difficult person is not open to having a conversation about an issue, we often have to either adjust ourselves and be okay with a behavior we don't like - just not take it in - let it roll off us like water off a duck, or, decide not be around that person. We can't make them change or be open to hearing us if they don't want to. It isn't always going to work out as we'd like. I personally have quit a job over an ongoing personality conflict that had no resolution - and the supervisor was the type to do nothing - so no mediation - no discussion. It happens. We all have certain sensitive areas that are hard to let go of, so if he is trampling upon one of those areas - it can be difficult for you to change as well. Sometimes it just isn't worth the effort. But, it all depends upon how bad you feel in the relationship - and what toll it is taking on you. If you can ignore it and not react to his behavior - then that would resolve it. I don't know much about your difficulty with him., so I'm just speaking generally.
Pluto is in your 2nd house in virgo. But pluto rules scorpio - sign 4th house cusp starts with. Therefore pluto rules your 4th house.